Is it normal to be annoyed by my relationship with my boyfriend?

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I just recently started dating my boyfriend. I honestly find myself to be a pretty mature person and my boyfriend isn't necessarily immature, but many of the things he does annoy me. I don't want to be rude and point out his flaws but at the same time would rather not have a relationship filled with lies. Is it normal to be annoyed by our relationship, and to like the thought of having a boyfriend more than actually having a boyfriend?

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Based on 26 votes (21 yes)
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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    Well, as others have said: If you feel like this NOW, it isnt something to hold onto .
    My longest relationship lasted four years. I noticed his flaws after a year ...

    I also have a huge distaste of people who is with someone just to avoid being single ...

    Have some fucking respect for the guys/girls you are with!

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  • Hannah2137
    10 years ago

    Oh my gosh I'm in exactly the same situation right now. Exactly the same. I know we should probably break up but he is sweet and I don't want to be single..

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    • Nephew7
      10 years ago

      I think i know you bahhaha

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      • Hannah2137
        10 years ago

        Lol where are you from?

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  • radchill
    10 years ago

    If he already annoys you that's not really a good sign. Usually the first part of a relationship is all lovey-dovey and you don't see or feel these little annoyances. Maybe in a year you'll start being truly annoyed by his quirks and at that point you decide if it's a deal breaker or not. Honestly it doesn't sound like you're a great fit. He's not going to change for you this early/ if ever. Maybe talk to him about it and think about if you're happier being single.

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