Is it normal to be angry at my parents for naming me this.

Alright well my name is Echo

It's a horrible name and you won't believe how many people like to tease me about my name. I got bullied so bad I had to change school (People like to pick on the quiet girl with a weird name, apparently) When I changed schools I had the teachers tell everyone my name was Erin instead.

I know it's a stupid thing to be angry about but I really dislike my parents a-little for giving me this name and have for awhile now. Is that normal to be bitter about something like this?

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  • bananaface

    If your name was what caused the bullying, then yeah, it's understandable why you'd feel that way. I think that Echo is sort of a cool name, though.:D

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  • howaminotmyself

    I like the name Echo, but if it bothers you I can understand wanting to change it. What about your middle name?

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    • Thank you but my middle name is Athena and I really don't like that name either. I think i'll just stick with Erin until I can legally change my name to it.

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      • valisque

        are you kidding me? Athena was the god of reason, wisdom, justice and a whole lot of other things i can't remember... if anything thats a gods name. why would u hate it?

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        • shade_ilmaendu

          I agree, I would *love* the name Athena. Still, she's entitled to her own opinion.

          Hope I don't end up being one of those parents. I feel like I'll probably want to give my kids unique and meaningful names, but the thought they could end up hating me for it... XD

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      • robbieforgotpw

        My name is pigpen. Who's is worse?

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      • MsWVgal

        Sounds like your parents are fans of Greek mythology!

        Echo - a beautiful mountain nymph, one of Zeus' favorite nymphs. When Zeus would come down to the nymphs, he told Echo to entertain Hera with long and fancy stories. Hera found out and punished Echo, so that she couldnt speak, only repeat others' words. She fell in love with Narcissus but he ran from her and she forever mourns losing him.

        Athena - goddess of wisdom and courage. She takes the name Pallas Athena in honor of a childhood friend. Also "Virgin Athena" because she never had a lover, and also as the patron of sexual modesty and mystery. Medusa was her priestess before being turned to a Gorgon. Athena was patron goddess of Athens and a fairly major player in much of Greek mythology.

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      • ShovedUpTheDonkey

        You should feel so lucky with a beautiful name like that! Think of all the girls called Lucy, Charlotte, Amy etc. Their names are so unoriginal and shared by billions of other girls. People with normal names feel like they have no identity, they aren't special and they aren't unique. Your name is stunning! I would gladly switch with you any day!
        Think of the majority of celebrities, people who make it and are successful in the world - they all have unique/memorable names. Successful people often change their names to more outlandish names because they know that a normal and unoriginal name will never capture people's admiration, wonder and love.
        Bullies will take the piss out of anyone they can, for any reason. Be it skin colour, hobby, looks, hair colour or name - anything can get them going when just want to bully someone. Don't take it to heart and hate your name because of it, it isn't to do with the name.
        The people who really love you will cherish and love you and your name together - they will accept who you are, what you are and everything about you. That name, no matter how much you hate it, will always be a huge part of who you are - you can't change it or pretend otherwise.
        You will realise one day that your name is a gift - everything happens for a reason. Kids who get bullied always learn humble lessons and morals afterward, they are more grounded and know more about the world and are more open-minded. People who suffer in life always turn out better afterward. You'll be fine darling x

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      • 1000yrVampireKing

        Kids get picked on for being autistic, retarded, short, fat, acne, How much money you make, being white, black, red, yellow, brown, being too tall, having braces, having glasses, having speech impediment. So you really think simply changing your name is going to make the world perfect?

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      • 1000yrVampireKing

        I have a normal name and I still had these issues. Maybe your parents wanted to give you something they thought was unique. Just because you have a average name does not mean you are never going to get bothered in school. Children in school are assholes. So this is a common issue. Beside you can change your name later so does it really matter?

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      • Fammer3

        Echo was a nimf in the greek myth of Narcissus. Athena is the greek godess of wisdom.

        Did your parents choose these greek names on purpose?

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  • disfunkshinal

    I hate my name. It's so common. Trade?

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  • iamrite

    If they make fun jus look@ em like they stupid

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  • iamrite

    That's a HOTT name!

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  • DADNSCAL

    You've every right to be angry, but I think your anger woul be better directed at the ignorant bullies. Congrats for changing schools, an using a less, say, unique name, which I think is cute, btw.

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  • You most likely got bullied due to the name being different. I think the name Echo is a unique name, so it is it different in a good way. I think the name echo sounds amazing.

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  • MsWVgal

    I think you'll like it eventually. School age kids are mean, but its a very unique and pretty name that lots of people would actually admire, especially once you're older. In the mean time, there's no problem with using Erin as a nickname.

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  • daisymoo

    My name is Teddi and 20 years ago when I was going through school it was very unusual to have an 'odd' name. I got bullied and called name. Back the. I longed to be called something different and even started to call myself Tammy. Now in older and unusual names are more accepted I love my name. I love having a different name to everyone else and it makes you special. Embrace being different :-)

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  • shakalaka

    Echo is a cool name and I like that name. It's not your parents fault that you've been bullied by kids at your school. Those kids are the problem here.

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  • DADNSCAL

    You have to be of legal age to change your name, and it's very expensive.

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  • himynameis

    That's SUCH a cool name! I'm actually jealous lol..

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  • court19

    If you don't like the name you can legally change it.

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  • Avant-Garde

    I like the name Echo. I'm curious, did they name you after the nymph, Echo, in greek mythology or did they just name you after the word? It's understandable that you hate it due to the way you've been unfairly treated over it. Some parents don't think of whether or not their child could be potentially bullied when picking their name. Most parents probably just see the beauty in it and nothing else.

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    • Yeah your right, most people don't know about that and think I am just named after the word. My Mom is a Anthropologist, and while studying mythology she fell in love with the story and named me after Echo in the story.

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      • ShovedUpTheDonkey

        That's a truly beautiful way to be named. So many people must be jealous of you! Rather than a parent opening the baby book and choosing the first name, or someone naming their child a boring and dull normal name because they're too scared what society might think. Your Mum is obviously a romantic and ambitious person who is not afraid to stand up to society's standards - those are always the people who do well in life and you will too.

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      • shade_ilmaendu

        Those kids are probably just jealous you have such a lovely and unique name. Trust me, when you're in primary school kids will give you shit for anything different, anything that sets you apart from the status quo. Trust me, I was the resident "weirdo" in my high school... artistic, goth, didn't wear makeup, ate healthy bagged lunches... yeah people actually made fun of me for eating healthy. It's childish and it's all based on fear.

        Buncha scared little elementary school kids get up to middle school. They're in bigger classes dealing with all sorts of new people and uncomfortable situations. How do they handle it? They start by singling out the outsiders to give themselves a common enemy, they put themselves above other people to give them protection from being cast out themselves. Without a "them" there is no reason for "us" to exist.

        Best advice I can give you? Don't let a bunch of ignorant little shits change you. If you want to change your name for yourself, that's one thing. If you're only doing it because of the reception it has received, then wait a while. Go to college, get out in the adult world. See how people respond to you there before you make your decision, because looking at the responses here it seems most people think your name is awesome. I know I do, hell I'd trade you. Your middle name is one of my favorite characters from mythology.

        I know what it's like to be bullied. My nickname all through school was "The Anti Boner". But I didn't let that change me, in fact it made me even more resolute to be myself no matter what anyone else tried to tell me, and in the end, people started to respect me for it.

        Just be you. As hard as you can be.

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    • Anime7

      I agree with you. I think most parents don't really understand how cruel children can be.

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  • Anime7

    I've been bullied for my name as well. I agree it sucks, but in a way it sort of helps you build thick skin. Personally though, I think you have a cool name.

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    • Avant-Garde

      I used to get bullied for my name. This was one of the reasons why I would dread going to summer camp because some people would treat me one way and then when they heard my name, they would either laugh or tell me it was a boys name which meant that it couldn't be my name. Why do some parents raise such ignorant children?!

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      • Anime7

        I actually don't think it's the parents faults. If anything, kids don't have good role models since the bad guys in films are usually the "cool" guys. Good people aren't often shown much nowadays so at an impressionable age it's easy to see why a child would associate bad behavior with being cool. Hopefully as they grow up they learn that bullying sucks.

        When I was bullied I wanted to treat other people like the bullies treated me, but my dad would always tell me that bullying other people wasn't right and that I shouldn't treat others like that. I didn't listen to him and as a result whenever anybody tried to be nice to me I just pushed them away and made fun of them, now I regret it.

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  • MissyLeyneous

    Echo Athena... it sounds really pretty to me!!

    Maybe the problem is your own insecurity and not your name? Try not giving a flying horse-shit about what a few jerk-offs say, hmmm? ^_~

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    • NocturnePonyFan

      Oh please. If she doesn't like her name, she has every right to go by something else or change it once she's of legal age.

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      • MissyLeyneous

        And puh-lease to you as well! I didn't say she didn't have that right... it just seems kind of drastic to me.

        Echo Athena IS a pretty name.

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        • Avant-Garde

          Athena is a awesome name. My mother actually considered naming me that, but my father hated it.

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  • NocturnePonyFan

    It's expensive to change your name...$300 or something, roughly. My friend changed her name, and I remember her saying it was timely and expensive. But, it's certainly doable! And you have a valid reason for changing it (bullying). However, you do have to be of legal age, so until then you can always ask your teachers and others to call you something else less unusual.

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  • GuvnorsOtherWoman

    The dirtiest trick ever played on me was played by my own mother because she named me! The name in question was popular when I was born and I was never bullied over it but I hated it because it wasn't exotic enough and I don't like the meaning. I changed it when I was 22 and have been using my 'new' name ever since.

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  • Eattherich713

    Athena sounds so strong! I like it :)

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  • davesumba

    Echo is an awesome name, and those kids are just jealous. don't let them get to you so much that you change something about yourself every time something like that happens. Kids are mean, plain and simple, just don't let it get to you, and if it does, don't show it. once you grow up, no one will say anything bad about your name, and if they do, well just laugh at them on the inside because they aren't going to get far in life.

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  • Paradiddle

    I think it is normal not to like your name. Younger people that lack the brains to respect non-common names and only accept names such as Michael, Chris and Jennifer are simply missing out. I'll be honest though, Echo Athena is very attractive~ I wish I'd meet someone my age with a name like that, I do know someone whos first name is Athena though. I also find that quieter people end up having much better personalities compared to the more outspoken ones. However if you truly don't like it then wanting to go by something else is completely okay, I have a friend who did that simply because most can't pronounce his real name.

    While creative names are unique and probably accepted better to older people, I do think that careful planning is required to make sure your situation doesn't happen though. I heard of a girl named something that sounded like "my ear" and you can imagine how that went.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Like the PHP command to output a string?
    Echo 'Athena';
    >Athena

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  • SEWnanist23

    There was a New Wave Rock band called "Echo and The Bunnymen" Check 'em out on You Tube

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  • WasThatAMoth

    I think Echo is a nice name. It really stands out. But since that name has given you troubles in school, I can understand why you wouldn't like that name. I think I would be angry with my parents as well...I don't think you should change it though. That name is very unique. But if you decide to go ahead and change it then go ahead; it is your choice.

    Oh and having Athena as your middle name is simply awesome.

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  • YOMOM

    Hey don't put the blame on your parents! Well, maybe I'm in the same boat as you unless I was never getting bullied at school because of my name (Evo) and yes i'm a girl. I think it sort of cool and not mainstream!

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  • westoptic

    Both your first name and your middle name are bad ass and unique. Why would you want to change it to the bland, overused names so many people have today? Be proud of your awesome name, it makes you stand out in a good way, people just tease you because they're jealous.

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  • Ibelievethis

    I think it's a nice honest. Well there is no argument that it is different and individual. However I do understand that for shy people an unusual name can cause its problems and make you stand out when you may not want to.
    Far from teasing or bullying people about their given names I am always curious as to how people are given their names or how their parents chose them.xx

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  • Imsupernormal

    Is this that girl Echo from that show Dollhouse? XD

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  • dappled

    I was almost given a very odd name and I'm glad I wasn't (it really was a horrible name). But yours isn't. I really like it. I know people are idiots who will bully for the smallest difference but I see your difference as a positive thing. You may even come to think it yourself too. Eventually, at least.

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  • SangoNyappy

    I think it's not that bad name but I'm not sure how to pronounce it.

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  • gargamel

    I would like to call your name out in a big empty hall. Lol!!!

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  • nelly96

    I can understand you, my name is pretty different too and thus, got me a lot of crap from the kids at school when I was there and it's normal to hold a bit of resentment towards your parents for it.
    Though, I really think Echo is a pretty name.
    I new this guy, and his full name was literally "Timothy Timmy Timmis" everytime i think of my name, I thank god my parents didn't hate me as much as that kids parents did.

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  • dom180

    I've been bullied for my name before (surname, not first name), but not as badly as you. I'm considering changing my name, but I'm still unsure. For one thing, what to change it to?

    I think you have a good name, but I can see how it would attract bullying because kids tend to like to bully anything that's different, whether it be good or bad. If I ever have kids, I'm naming them something normal. And they can take the mother's surname, not mine.

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    • dappled

      I know your surname because it was sort of in your profile once. It's just a surname and it'd have to be way worse than it is before I thought it was funny.

      Also, the thing is, if I was going to be picked on for anything, how wonderful that it's something I could take absolutely no blame for and cannot take personally. Much better than being told you're ugly or stupid or dull.

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      • dom180

        Yeah, I guess you're right (although I have been bullied for my personality before too, most specifically my introversion and quietness). I'm more guarded about my name than I used to be here - as far as I'm aware only you and now Anime, as well as possibly one other person, know it in full, although it's perfectly possible other people saw it at the same time you did and I can't do anything to help that :P I was speaking to bananaface recently about how I'm much more guarded than I used to be about personal information than I was when I first joined IIN, and not revealing my full name to many people is an example of that.

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        • dappled

          Yeah, I very deliberately didn't say anything that would even hint at your name and it's not something I've ever told anyone or will ever tell anyone.

          I think keeping your name to yourself is a good idea (apart from in private to people you trust and have known a reasonable amount of time). You've got a fairly high profile here on IIN and that, in itself, may be enough for someone to want to pull something.

          I'd have been more open when I was just any old user but plenty of people know both our usernames and it means you don't have the benefits of anonymity. Heh! Look at me talking about us as if we were Brad Pitt and Tom Cruise. :D

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          • Tom180 Cruise

            To be honest, I think it would be very easy for anyone to target me if they wanted to. Really, I'm surprised nobody has yet. I (sometimes deliberately) make it far too easy, and I always have done :P

            And we can be Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt if we like, damn it! :D

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            • BradapPittled

              Invisible character didn't work for me but I like my new username more without it anyway *flaunts*

              What do we do now? I mean, do we go to David Beckham's house and play Pro Evo or do you like, have to, umm, make a movie, dude?

              Okay, this is the worst Brad Pitt impersonation in all of history. :P At least your first name rhymes with the Tom. Although, come to think of it, Brad Pitt's real first name is William and my name does kind of rhyme with that. Do you know what? Maybe you and I really are them. :O

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    • Anime7

      I would actually like it if my children had their mothers surname than my own as well. If you don't mind me asking, what is your last name? I'll tell you my first name in exchange cause I guarantee you that my first name is worse than your surname.

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  • little_freak

    The weirder the name of the child, the more narcissistic the parents. In time you'll learn it's a flaw of them, but then again, nobody is perfect and you should just accept them for what they are and not have such high standards as if they had a duty to be flawless people just because of being your parents.

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    • shade_ilmaendu

      Narcissistic, really? For not wanting your child to be the 20th Jessica in her class? For putting some thought and care into the name of their child rather than just choosing a bland name off a bland list because that's what society tells you to do? For wanting to do something their own way rather than cave in to the peer pressure of everyone else?

      If retaining your integrity and holding true to what you believe in a world that tries to beat down anyone who's different is narcissistic, then rub my nipple and call me Martha. >.<

      Don't get me wrong, there are people who take it way too far. Like that woman who named her daughter Le-A... Ledasha. Cause the dash don't be silent yo.

      But I do think names are important, I put a lot of thought into naming things much less important to me than my children would be. What's wrong with choosing a name you find to be beautiful or meaningful?

      Should we make ourselves into lesser versions of what we are to avoid making others feel comfortable? Or should we all, each and every one of us, shine as brightly as we can, that we might inspire others to do the same?

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  • Prince_of_Crows

    I would sure as hell be angry. When you turn 18, I'd suggest changing your name to either "Edward" or "Emma." That way you have a normal name but it's close enough that it will be easy to get used to.

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