Is it normal to be angry at my friend for having sex in my bed?

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So, I had my friendship group over the other night for some drinks, movies and board games. Two of my friends are currently in a relationship, and neither of them are allowed to stay at each others house (they're both 17)- but were both allowed to stay at my house. They took this gathering at my house to have sex in my bed, rather than hang out with the rest of the group. They simply stayed in my bedroom ALL night, and several people walked in on them several times 'not wearing much'.. I feel quite stupid.. like they have just used me, and my house as a place to have sex as they never have a chance at each others house. Am I over-thinking this or do I have the right to be mad? I also feel kind of violated because it was MY bed and they knew that. None of my other friends got mad, which leads me to believe maybe I'm just being sensitive.. let me know!

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  • Josie_57
    12 years ago | pl

    yeah its disrespectful that you invited them round to hand out and they just ran off to have sex. i would be annoyed as well

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    • hotspurs
      12 years ago

      Very true I would be so mad.my best mate used my sofa to have sex with this girl has I was sleeping next sofa down

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  • Inspector019
    12 years ago

    Yes normal... None of your other friends were mad because it wasn't in their bed..lol

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  • thecheese
    12 years ago

    They SOILED IT!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I would've walked in, pulled the covers off and told them to get out. That is soo disrespectful...I would be fuming.

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  • KatieLiz
    12 years ago

    I'd be really pissed off too. My bedroom is the only room in the house which is my own, so if someone else had sex in there I would majorly freak out at them. And I'm generally really laid back, but there's a line.

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    • hotspurs
      12 years ago

      Very true not nice at allmif there were. Her really mates really mates would not do that.it is her bed not theres

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  • Wilkommen
    12 years ago

    Yes! That is YOUR domain and they violated it in the worst way possible!

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  • tori
    12 years ago

    You are right to be upset. My room is MY room. Your friends were very disrespectful. Make rules next time. I would have made them wash the sheets. Or dont have them over any more when they are together. I think you got used.

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    • hotspurs
      12 years ago

      Very good idea or don't invite both of them togther.there should be sOoooooo sorry what there did to her.really mates would never do that

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  • 2fly4you
    7 years ago

    No It's not ok to have sex on your friend's bed, I mean for fucksake you wouldn't like it if you caught your friends fucking on your bed right ? So Just don't do it. You're in some one else's home so show some respect. It happened to me and up to this day my friend isn't allowed back art my house. Very tacky and downright desrespectul in my opinion

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  • TheBox1373
    7 years ago

    I'd be pissed too .

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  • Cmetcalf
    8 years ago

    Ive just came here cause its just happened to me and im so fucking pissed

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  • myweirdself16
    12 years ago

    i would be pissed off and get new bedsheets immediately. ew

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  • captainawesome
    12 years ago

    Of course it's normal, if that happened to me with any of my friends I'd be really pissed. It's downright disrespectful. Confront them about it, and explain how you feel about the situation. If they don't take you seriously, then don't invite them over ever again.

    I'd be asking them to buy you a new set of sheets if I were you.

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  • DudeUrFuglyXox
    12 years ago

    YES! that is so disgusting! i would be so pissed at my friends if they did that

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  • Allison3469
    12 years ago

    umm yes, you're right to be angry.

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  • moomus
    12 years ago

    I'd be pissed...

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It's disrespectful what they done. Tell them that you aren't happy about it and don't invite them to any other gatherings.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Aw give the kids a break! They'd nowhere else for a bit of comfortable humpy bumpy!

    However, I'd ask them to use the guest room - if you have one, or to at least strip the bed and put on fresh sheets for me.

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