Is it normal to be an 18 year old girl and never have kissed a boy

"I feel happy like this"

There is a certain happiness in stagnation; a familiarity. And of course there is risk of heartache in any relationship but to risk much is to gain much.

But a person in your position, who gambles nothing gains nothing either.

My advice would be to get out there now. Be heartbroken (it will happen) and learn. Now is the time for mistakes, not later in life.

Judging by how often this question comes up, from people aged between 17 and 20+, I'd suggest it's normal.

I expect more people have kissed someone by your age than not, but you're not part of such a tiny minority as to be bizarre and freakish in your lip-chastity.

Anyway, if you're shy and don't really meet new people, and if you generally only hang out with girls and are not a lesbian, then your opportunity to fall for someone is limited. Most people don't go out searching for a lover; typically lovers stumble upon each other. In other words, it usually happens by chance, but the odds are greatly increased if you are mixing with guys in social situations.

If you're happy as you are, don't allow your friends to make you feel concerned about it, and certainly don't make the effort to meet a boy just because you want to prove to them you're straight and an ordinary girl - nobody wants to be used to prove a point and then thrown away .

I feel pretty much the same, just... male.
If you want a boyfriend because you feel like it - Go and get one.
But you shouldn't make such a desition just to please your friends. You're fine the way you are. You still have plenty of time to deside. And if you like being single - Be single.

have you kissed a girl?

I'm male, and my first kiss was at 21. Got a lot of shit going through school for being a virgin, but I never could see how their chaotic love lives made them any better than me. At least I got good grades as opposed to any STDs... (Not to say all people in relationships at a young age are more susceptible to STDs or are less intelligent than people who are not in relationships at the same age.)

When there are so many comments you feel like your own input would be both ignored, and worthless...oh IIN, what a cruel and unjust mistress you are...

Same boat, although I'm a guy.

Don't worry about it, I know some rad ladies who had their first kiss around your age.

If you want to meet more people you'll have to go outside every once in a while. Noisy clubs aren't the best places to meet people. The eardrum-raping noise modern DJ's spew at you doesn't help at making a decent connection with someone.

Why not go to a nice bar instead? College bars for example are great for meeting people. Basically, any bar where there's a good atmosphere is a good meeting spot.

Other than that, you can do some extra-curricular activities. That way you get to learn something new, and you've got the opportunity to meet people.

Last but not least, don't focus too much on getting a guy. Just get out, be sociable and enjoy yourself. If you're living a good life, you're bound to find someone to share it with.

Aww wehn i was 16 i was feeling the same. I think the easiest way is to go out to clubs, i swear, you can get to kiss 3 guys per night if you wanna. Although you may start talkin to guys :p i mean, first, just as friends?

it is completely normal even though i had my first kiss when i was ten years younger than you but word of advice

please dont become a slut/party animal after you discover that boys like shy girls please

even though im 13 i know this

If you want to kiss a boy lets get together.

I was just like you lol i'm 25 now and no regrets don't feel bad you are a very intelligent lady!. I did eventually get out and date and have sex when I wanted to, also learned I didn't miss a damn thing :) I find its all the same no matter what age, well so far lol

are you a virgo by any chance? haha.

No i understand you, its not bad, but it isnt bad to get out there and meet more people, open up some new avenues in life. It doesnt mean youre slow or anything but smart, yes, a lot of young women get their hearts toyed with, and youve had the luxury of skipping it. Go for it, itd be a great experiance, you might have the chance of meeting that one special guy who has saved it for someone like you! Go on, have fun! :)