Is it normal to be alone more than you want?

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i hate my life most of the time. i don't have many friends or close friends, and i spend most of my time alone at my apartment. the guys i do hang out with rarely contact me, i usually find out what theyre doing and tag along... I fee like i'm the friend people don't really care to have around, or dont even notice when i am around.

is this normal? or am i just socially inept?

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Based on 38 votes (33 yes)
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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    I feel like i'm the one who wrote this post lol

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    • Asteria
      13 years ago

      me too.

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      • kamaffer
        13 years ago

        but you didn't!!!!!!!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Agree w browneyes

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I feel the exact same way. I think it just means we haven't made friends that really need us. That's all. It's not our duty to make ourselves noticed and appreciated, just to find those that automatically notice and appreciate us. Cheezy--I know. But it makes sense.

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  • star5
    13 years ago

    I feel the same way sometimes

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    I wouldn't say your socially inept, but I think if it really makes you feel that uncomfortable then you should go out and meet people. I understand that it can be hard to meet people, but it's the only way you're gonna find someone you have thing's in common with. And trust me, their is definietly someone out there who could relate to you. You just have to look. And you should have more confidence in yourself. Why do you feel like people don't want you around? I think that's sad. I'm sure their's plenty of people in this world that would love your company. Try opening up to them about it.

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  • xxxMissFitxxx
    13 years ago

    Kill them with kindness but don't be a doormat.

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