Is it normal to be almost never turned on by anything?

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I've had multiple sexual intercourses with 5 girls or so (mostly while dating them) and I'm still wondering about my "sexual urge".

I am a straight male, that's fair to say. My sexual life is pretty normal, but when it comes to sex (penetration) it is pretty common, that I simply have no urge to have sex. I am simply not horny and that is sometimes followed by a lack of erection.

Mostly it is not a problem, but it turns down my self esteem, when the girl wants it and I, as a guy, have to explain that I don't want to...

I have no dysfunction (physical), and I do not watch porn so often...

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  • ucipher8
    11 years ago

    turn your ability into pornography. at least you will get paid for what shames you most.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Maybe you need the emotional connection? That's what it sounds like to me. Someone you can really connect with on a deep level. The stereotype is that it's more common in females than males, but it's really just common for humans in general. If I were to go out for a one night stand, I wouldn't be turned on either, and lose interest. It's just built into me. I need to have an emotional connection, or my lady boner goes down. You're left with the feeling; What's so interesting about sex?

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