Is it normal to be afraid to tell my so i masturbate?

My SO wants me to masturbate so he can see. I’m still incredibly shy even though we’ve been having sex for over 2 years now.....
Is it wrong to be afraid?

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Based on 15 votes (11 yes)
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Comments ( 10 )
  • ToffeeMe

    hahahah I can only that its normal ahhaha no comment

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  • EnglishLad

    Everyone masturbates. Every. Fucking. One. It's taboo, sure, but it's as beige as a pair of cordouroy jeans...

    Just admit to your partner that you like to have an explore now and again but you've never done it in front of anyone else before, and the thought of doing it just for him like a show makes you anxious and/or apprehensive. Completely understandable.

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  • Firsttaste

    I must say it's not wrong or right, You do what you feel comfortable doing. If you're not comfortable masturbation in front of him then don't. He will get over the situation.

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  • einexile

    First agree to do this if he also does at the same time. First go at it under a blanket together, then when you've gotten over the strangeness of masturbating with someone else you'll likely be far more comfortable removing the blanket and having him watch you.

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  • LloydAsher

    Some people are actually against masterbation if they are with someone. Exclusivity is the problem with the relationship usually.

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    • einexile

      Where did you get the idea that either of them is against masturbating?

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  • Doesnormalmatter

    It sounds normal to be afraid, but there is really no reason to be!

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  • Columbusbiguy

    Watching someone else pleasure themselves is a huge turn on for others. If you are shy, perhaps he wan watch from afar, in a closet or sometbing. Relax and enjoy that he is into you.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    whatre yall 15 or somethin?

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    • Tori99eli

      No🤣
      We’re 20🙄

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