Is it normal to be afraid to tell my so i masturbate?
My SO wants me to masturbate so he can see. I’m still incredibly shy even though we’ve been having sex for over 2 years now.....
Is it wrong to be afraid?
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My SO wants me to masturbate so he can see. I’m still incredibly shy even though we’ve been having sex for over 2 years now.....
Is it wrong to be afraid?
Everyone masturbates. Every. Fucking. One. It's taboo, sure, but it's as beige as a pair of cordouroy jeans...
Just admit to your partner that you like to have an explore now and again but you've never done it in front of anyone else before, and the thought of doing it just for him like a show makes you anxious and/or apprehensive. Completely understandable.
I must say it's not wrong or right, You do what you feel comfortable doing. If you're not comfortable masturbation in front of him then don't. He will get over the situation.
First agree to do this if he also does at the same time. First go at it under a blanket together, then when you've gotten over the strangeness of masturbating with someone else you'll likely be far more comfortable removing the blanket and having him watch you.
Some people are actually against masterbation if they are with someone. Exclusivity is the problem with the relationship usually.
Watching someone else pleasure themselves is a huge turn on for others. If you are shy, perhaps he wan watch from afar, in a closet or sometbing. Relax and enjoy that he is into you.