Is it normal to be afraid to kiss at 19

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So im a girl, 19, and I feel really anxious when I'm in a situation that might end up in kissing, even if I like the guy and I want to kiss him, I just can't. I had one boyfriend and dated a guy, both of them initiated most of the kisses or the intimacy, I just couldn't do it even if I wanted to, then I kissed some guys drunk at parties (it is way easier like that) but for example if I go on a date with a guy that I like and I see that the situation is perfect for a kiss I try to avoid it at all costs, I think it would be awkward or embarrasing, but I also feel that if I break that wall (the first kiss) everything would be way easie, iddddddk if its normal or wtf, real anxiety

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  • libertybell
    5 years ago

    I have a hard time initiating affection with guys too, I worry about rejection. But, I feel like I need to get past this; you should, too.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    You're extremely shy and maybe you think if you kiss the guy you may give them the impression that you want to go further but in reality you aren't ready for that. You can do a cheek kiss I am sure. That should give the guy an idea you like him at least, perhaps like but not love, not yet.

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  • McBean
    5 years ago

    https://pairedlife.com/physical-intimacy/PandasKissingHub

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