Is it normal to be afraid of relationships?

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I get really anxious and paranoid when a guy likes me. Like a couple months ago my guy friend told me he liked me, and after that, I got really anxious and weird when i was in the same room with him. It's like I try to do everything possible so the guy will go back to ignoring me again. I ignore the person, avoid them at any chance I get, and I can't stand talking to them anymore. Maybe I just hate the attention... idk?

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  • DrinaVonCheez
    13 years ago

    Normal. Almost ALL of my friends are guys and ALL of them have or have had a crush on me at some point. I admit I act differently when they come out & tell me they like me as more than a friend...like I don't want them to like me ha
    And the guys I do like..well, after I find that they dig me too I kinda get scared or lose interest or something? Its odd.

    Plus ive been hurt a few times in the past & I fear being in a relationship with someone more than a year or two...idk I guess people share the same problem.

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  • uPSIDEOFDOWn
    11 years ago

    Whatre you so afraid of a guy finding out? Chances are that he has several insecurities of his own...

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  • BUGABOO-666-
    13 years ago

    I think it's normal! Maybe you're just not cool with that right now but the way you feel about this may change over time.

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  • HeatherFeather
    13 years ago

    My guess would be that it's either attention, or you're just afraid of that kind of commitment. I say this is normal though because I've acted similarly around guys before.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i'd say that you're a total bitch.... but thats just my opinion.

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