Is it normal to be afraid of not finding love
I have this huge fear that I won't find love. IIN?? I haven't had my first kiss yet or my first boyfriend and I'm afraid I won't until I'm like 30 or something...is that a normal fear??
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I have this huge fear that I won't find love. IIN?? I haven't had my first kiss yet or my first boyfriend and I'm afraid I won't until I'm like 30 or something...is that a normal fear??
I felt the same way for a long time. Love typically happens when you aren't trying to find it. After that it takes a lot of work to keep it. My advice is to just be yourself and don't grab on to someone just because you're looking for love. Let it happen.
Well actually... That's not all true, love might never come to anyone who does not try to put in at least just a SMALL effort in order to meet new people..
But.. We have all heard the "And then she dropped her shopping bag, and bla bla".. People can also meet eachother that kind of way....
On topic really, you... You my precious, you are the gift... The story teller. Don't be afraid that you might never find "love"... Theres so many other things that is full of love.... Hobbies, playing video games... Joining your local gym to put on some freaking iron... Anything.
well first off there is some 1 out there, im a psycho, i paint my face up, n im a juggalo n im geting marryed, first off how old r u?
I've had friends say about me that they can't imagine any guy ever wanting me. I'm 19 and never had a biyfriend. I've hooked up with guys before but I'm not getting any action at all on a normal basis like most college students and I feel lame and like a loser because of it. I think I'm attracive because I get hit on by guys when I go out and complimented by gay guys. My fear is that my personality sucks and I will never be able to change it. I'm just being myself which at times may be loud and direct sometimes. But I know other girls who are loud and obnoctious and have boyfriends and I dont understand what is wrong with me. Could being an engineer have anything to do with it? Lots of guys don't like smart girls I've heard. Am I not bitchy enough? All girls I know who re bitchy have active love lives.
Wait how old r u? Cuz if ur young thn u still have alot to learn .... There is a someone for everyone. Okay u just got to give it time yet if ur a little older thn you need to stop backing out n jus throw yourself out there.
If's not normal, we're both screwed... I have kissed some guys in my life but never had a boyfriend. Sometimes it just seems like no one will ever truly love me... But like a friend told me, each person has her own story. Of course there's someone out there for you. Just be sure to give yourself chance to meet him! Its important to go out, meet new people... Sooner or later you'll find a lover, and will sure make new friends on the way!