Is it normal to be afraid of love?

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ive been in a lot of relationships and in every one of them as soon as it gets serious i want to run. im so afraid of getting hurt that even when the guy says he loves me i have actual panic attacks, no joke. it just keeps happening and i dont know what to do, will i be like this forever? is it normal to fear love so much?

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Based on 56 votes (45 yes)
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  • Hmmaybe
    12 years ago

    Although abnormal your fear is very much rational.

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  • mango262
    12 years ago

    Its normal to be scared, but, you need to learn to overcome this fear !
    Or maybe you just dont want to be in a serious relationship right now

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  • chezycheze
    12 years ago

    What exactly are you afraid of? That he will cheat on you, leave you, lie to you, change his mind, not care about you, abuse you, take you for granted, etc. Which is it??? Anyways, once you know which one it is, it will be much easier to prevent yourself from getting hurt when your in a relationship and it will help you to better figure out what sorta guy your looking for.

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    • loveslost
      12 years ago

      its not a fear of loss or getting hur its just pure fear, i dont know what of...just fear that something bad is comeing from being in love

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