Is it normal to be afraid of letting it feel good?

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First off, I'm 19,im a girl and I've never had an orgasm. I love sex, a lot but when it starts feeling really good like when I think im about to orgasm I get freaked out and stop. I dont really know why I do this, and I don't know why I am afraid. Is it normal to be afraid of having an orgasm?

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Perhaps you are ashamed of sex. Perhaps maybe you have a fear of being a whore. Maybe you do not want to give the man the satisfaction. Maybe you are actually afraid of men hurting and using you.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    part of it is maturity. as you get more comfortable with your own sexuality this will fade into the past.

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  • RapidlyRotatingPanda
    11 years ago

    I suspect you just aren't comfortable enough with it. Time and experience will certainly prove to be the answer.

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  • drbishop
    11 years ago

    This book helped a lot for a friend of mine with the same problem:
    http://goo.gl/UEd7k

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    Anxiety about orgasms seems to be pretty common in women. I used to get a little freaked out. Are you holding your breath, maybe? Make sure to breathe deeply.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    Maybe you're afraid to make your cum face. If you don't want him to see it, just let him hit it from behind.

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