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I am in a perfect loving realtionship and am very happy with my girl, but i cant help but fear the day we eventually have to break up. It scares me really bad nd I don't know why I cant just live in the moment. Am i just a pessimist? Is it normal is be so afraid?
YEA IT'S NORMAL, AND I BELIEVE EVERY ONE AFRAID,BUT YOU HAVE TO REALIZED THAT BREAK UP ARE GOOD . THE SHOW YOU HOW TO BE BETTER AND HELP YHU GET READY FOR LIFE EXPERIENCES . HAVE FUN WITH GIRL AND IF ONE DAY YA'LL BREAK UP JUS TAKE IT AS A EXPERIENCE SO WEN U GO WITH THE NEXT GIRL YOU'LL KNOW HOW TO TREAT HER
usually stems from a bad experience in the past. don't think about it too much. life is short. keep the mentality that if something fucks up it does not matter because you will find someone else. you will end up with someone amazing i am sure.
Its not pessimistic, its realistic. It shows that your partner and relationship means something to you.
My relationship's under threat, as my boyfriend may be moving across the country (issues in the past prevent a LDrelationship). It worries the two of us sick, but proves how strong our love is.
Ride out your problems, fight for your relationship and don't let go til you want to.
Yes of course, you feel entirely happy with her and it's perfectly normal to want to hold on to that feeling. Remember not all relationships fail! Always have hope, treat her right and you may very well keep it for a long time.