Is it normal to be afraid of a relationship?

I've only had one boyfriend who's actually meant something to me and who I loved. But he cheated on me and now I have all kinds of issues with relationships and trust and my past with him haunts me. I don't necessarily want him back, just the feelings. Is that normal?

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93% Normal
Based on 45 votes (42 yes)
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  • Short4Words

    You're saying you just want to love somebody again? Most normal thing I've ever heard. Don't let one guy spoil the rest of things for you. There are good men out there.

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  • Mando

    How long ago was this? And why are you dragging all that hurt into new relationships?

    Counselling time - really. Go get it sorted out.

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  • ibreathelectric

    completely normal :)

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Yeah i'd say so.

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  • Energy

    Yep.

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  • noid

    Of course it's normal.

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