Is it normal to be abstinent

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Hey im a 18 yo guy, i have a problem i wanna loose my virginity. the problem is i dont know who should get my virginity. i was with a 21 yo girl for 4 months and i got feelings for her, but apperantly i didnt mean anything to her? she just wanted to take advantage of me idk ?! i got hurt and now im really carefull of who i should trust with my virginty? is it normal? what do i do ?!

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Based on 70 votes (46 yes)
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  • sexyredhead010
    12 years ago

    Please do not lose your virginity until you have found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. I'm only a year older than you I lost mine at 17 and I regret it

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  • Austalien
    12 years ago

    what sexually repressed brainwashed retards do you's hang around no it's not normal >.<

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  • scapetown.VA
    12 years ago

    Your gramar is terrible. Learn how to charm a girl. It's not always easy but it is actually very fun.

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    • TEmp
      12 years ago

      yea sry for the bad grammar, im not that good at english.. but i agree charming girls can be fun, but sometimes i dont know if they just "play" charmed and play with my head -.- as im so unexperienced im really vulnerable..

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  • Ono
    12 years ago

    Losing your virginity is incredibly overrated.

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  • amigoing
    12 years ago

    Any relationship is always going to involve an element of risk. You can be with someone 20 years and then they still break your heart. On the other hand, if you never take a risk with your heart, then you're guaranteed to never find real love.
    Ultimately, we all have to take that risk if we want to experience love, but certainly theres no reason why you shouldn't take your time. Just don't beat yourself up if life doesn't go to plan. All any of us can do is our best. :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I have the exact same fear. I want my first time to mean something. Sorry you had to go through that. Ever thought of dating a close female friend? She's your friend so maybe she'll understand you better than any girl you've know for 4 month. I hope that you lose it with someone you love.

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  • plant
    12 years ago

    Don't be a puss now.

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  • VladWhyte
    12 years ago

    Stop being a pussy, that's what you should do.

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  • Darkoil
    12 years ago

    You sound like a fuckin woman for gods sake, just fuck somebody, then when you realise sex feels amazing carry on.

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  • Dazzie
    12 years ago

    You'll find somebody. You shouldn't rush on losing your virginity.

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