Is it normal to be a voyeur?

Ever since I was like 14 and saw my neighbor and her boyfriend have sex through my bedroom window I have loved watching people do sexual things from my houses Windows. I get off on it so much now that when I see a bedroom light go on I go to my window and my hand goes straight to my clit.

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  • maxximus79

    I like when people are watching me and my lady fuck

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    • Then I'd be you guys best friend lol

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  • lordofopinions

    Technically voyeurism is a crime but your not taking pics are you? It's not hurting them because all your doing is watching. They should learn to turn off the lights or the curtains. There may be another thought. You mentioned they leave the light on. Maybe that's not by accident. Maybe the WANT you to see them. Lots of people like being watched when having sex. :)

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    • No i don't take pics or videos. That is a good point and leaving the shades open and lights on.. But how have I gotten lucky to old neighbors and current neighbors having the same fetish

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  • HypnoDom

    Certainly normal. A lot of people get turned on by watching sexual acts. Trying to watch your neighbors having sex without their knowledge or consent? That's less cool.

    Have you considered finding partners that will help you indulge this fantasy? Do you enjoy the idea of watching your partners have sex together, perhaps participating, perhaps just watching?

    Or maybe you have cuckquean fantasies? That's when the woman is deliberately excluded from the sex her partner is having. Sometimes she is made to watch. Sometimes she is made to be outside the room where she can hear, but not watch. Sometimes she helps prepare them for the act or cleans up afterwards. I just wonder, from what you've described, if that's relevant to your interests.

    Or maybe you just need to find some exhibitionist playmates whose fantasy is being observed as they have sex.

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    • I am a cuckquean. I think it's more I like to watch people and masturbate

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      • HypnoDom

        So you need to find people who can help you fulfill your desires. You like the idea of playing with a couple that humiliates you and denies you, perhaps tying you up and making you watch as they have the orgasms you can't?

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      • nikkiclaire

        What is a cuckquean?

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        • It's a female version cuckold

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  • It is natural but not normal in my opinion. It might be a criminal act depending on where you live, but on the other hand, it is like porn. You are watching strangers getting it on and it arouses you, and with the added adrenalin of doing something naughty and getting away with it.

    I would say that you might be bordering on obsession or addiction from what you said. If so, it's probably a good time to take control and slowly demolishing this habit.

    It might affect your sex life late on and it might put you in jail as well

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    • My sex life recently has been my toys and fingers anyway lol.

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