Is it normal to be a virgin when you live by yourself at 19?

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I'm a 19 year old girl and I'm still a virgin. I moved out about a year ago and just recently got my own apartment. I haven't had a boyfriend in over a year and a half. It just makes me wonder if it's normal for people who live by themselves to be single for so long. In high school when I had a boyfriend we had to find ways to sneak around the parents and now that I have my own place, I haven't gotten any action. I'm just wondering if I'm the only one who's excited to have their own place but has no one to bring over...

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  • Noonesperfect
    12 years ago

    Ill take yours away I'm also a virgin but younger than you

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  • shinno
    14 years ago

    don't rush it, but it might because you spend too much time at work or school don't hang out with people too much?? maybe? but either way just enjoy your life for now, on the ass comment part of the day for me, u can always chill with me i have no problems breaking the new apt, lol j/k

    no hater please i was kidding.

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  • wannarocktheworld
    14 years ago

    hell knows no fury... it is fury living to make dead more dead

    don't be a puss and wait for things to happen. want a guy, get a guy ! won't no lad come and just sit in ur lap and provide u some "action"

    damn

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  • Ariler
    14 years ago

    Nah, I'm also 19 and just posted about wanting to have sex badly but not being able to find someone else that's a virgin and if it was worth waiting. I really want my first time to be with a girl that's also a virgin but can't seem to find anyone.

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  • Brianx1987
    14 years ago

    hey no worries i was a virgin till i was 21. nothing to be ashamed of ;) when the time is right it'll happen.

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  • ilovemychick
    14 years ago

    not if you are a girl

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  • Frankcastle0309
    14 years ago

    Ummm. I submitted a post here about a problem of mine that's not so different about yours, You wanna hang out? hmmmmm?

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  • deathbybeauty69
    14 years ago

    I know a friend of mine who is 28 and he's not ugly, or anything and actually has access to hot women but he's still a virgin, so i think its just a matter of being ready to have sex. to some it may be no big deal, but there are so many things to consider and be careful about when having sex with anyone. don't worry this is normal. :)

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  • Jabarkhil9
    14 years ago

    dont worry time will tell, you have to just wait dont rush into things

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Its like being all dressed up with nowhere to go, now that you have a place of your own.

    Well, you are just going to have to do things that increase the likelihood that you'll meet a guy you like. Get out. Take classes. Join clubs. Reconnect with old school friends.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Your fine. I have lived alone for a long time in my life and trust me, if you don't have a guy, you will get one. As far as being a virgin, what is so wrong about being one? You will break it eventually and when you do, I hope it is great for you.

    Just wait until you like the guy instead of just "giving" it away.

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  • sweetsunshine89
    14 years ago

    hi, im also a virgin i just turned 20. it sounds like the real problem isn't that you don't have any guy to bring over to your new place, but just that you haven't found the right guy maybe? i don't think it makes a difference where you live,but im sure when you do, you can appreciate your new place even more :]

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