Is it normal to be a virgin because of asperger's?

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I'm 21 and never had a date or kiss because of my disorder that defines me.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    If you want to let your disorder define you, or use it as an excuse for your not being able to find a girlfriend, let me remind you that Stephen Hawking not only had a wife, HE HAD TWO! Do you really think your disability is more off putting than his?

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    • Short4Words
      8 years ago

      I'm dubbing you as the official love-guru of IIN.

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    • SadAsperger
      8 years ago

      Asperger's is worse than cancer, Down syndrome, and epilepsy.

      Statistics show that Aspies have the lowest employment rate out of all disabilities. Aspies are 25-30x more likely than the general population to contemplate suicide.

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    • SadAsperger
      8 years ago

      Asperger's is worse than cancer, Down syndrome and epilepsy.

      Girls would date any guy who's not socially awkward, meaning Hawking could easily get a date because he didn't have Asperger's.

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        Oh please enough with these posts! Your condition is not worse than cancer or epilepsy. Down Syndrome is in a different category: I've worked with people with this condition and they're mostly happy and affectionate, in fact delightful to be around even if hard work at times.

        You seem quite intelligent: I"d suggest you read "Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor Frankl, a shrink and concentration camp survivor whose main message is that there's one freedom no-one can take away from us, the freedom to decide how to respond to any given situation - think about it.

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      • Short4Words
        8 years ago

        Well you're funny. You got that going for you. Why not seek out girls with asperger's?

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        Dude, you are just a loser. You don't even need the Asperger's, that's just a convenient excuse for you. I gave you a perfectly good scenario from which to think and yet you wallow in self pity. Woe is certainly you.

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    Hire a prostitute. It's time to have sex.

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    • SadAsperger
      8 years ago

      Good deal!!!

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    • LuxM4G
      8 years ago

      I'm not sure if that's the most advisable option. He should correlate sex with emotion, that could scar him for life.

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      • green_boogers
        8 years ago

        Well yes, but his heart is in pain. Never having sex for his whole life will scar him even more.

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  • Tkm0404
    8 years ago

    Embrace who you are don't let it defined you!

    remember we don't get to pick and chose how we are born but what we can do is find the positives in ourselves to make it less harder!
    and always be yourself never cover it up or be something your not just be you always!

    I have disability not the same as yours but I have one so I understand you and I no its hard but it will get better because each day is a new day full of new positive's you just have to be opened to see it all! (You have want to see it and not by another forcing you to to only yourself.)

    good luck keep strong stay positive and never ever give up!!

    PS: I am so proud of you!! :)

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  • SandyGun5555
    8 years ago

    Um, fuck you.

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  • CanadianCowboy
    8 years ago

    I know that feel man, but you can do it, so can I

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  • horny_simpletons
    8 years ago

    I'm an aspie and I didn't lose my virginity until just recently at 23. I'm really prone to social anxiety. It's normal, but don't let your disorder define you.

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