Is it normal to be a virgin at this age?

DONT go have sex with some random person. I lost my virginity to my ex bf whom i absolutely hate now and I regret it everyday. Wait for the right person and it will be so much more special!

I'm 22 and still a virgin. Nothing is wrong with that. Most people have sex out of lust. Which is the complete opposite of making love. Wait for that right person, you don't want to regret anything.

Well I'm 18 and I lost my vitginity to a girl when I was 16. I thought we were so in love but it turned out that we really weren't:/

So I pretty much regret it.

Save it for the right girl dude.

Well I am 21 years old and I am still a virgin. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at your age. I am waiting for the right guy to come a long. Even though almost all my friends have had sex, I have tried to stick to what I believe in. I think I will be worth the wait in the end. Just because your friends are doing it, it doesn't mean you have to. ;)

I'm 20 and a virgin. There's nothing wrong with it. No one's forcing you.

i'm 20 and still a virgin. All my friends have lost theirs, but i dont really care. at 20, ive already accomplished so much already with my life just having sex that i really havent done. its not a big deal to be honest. i've been in heaps of situations where i could have lost it, just that the girls had no significance in my life so i didn't follow through.

another thing i noticed was that all my friends can remember their first and even though many of them did it with girls they didn't know very well, they ended up having this emotional attachment to that girl so i guess its better to do it with the girl you really love

What you are saying is that you have never been close enough to a girl relationship wise to have sex. That doesn't mean that everyone who has had sex earlier than you did so on a random and promiscuous basis.

That you think you can just go out and have sex but you are being a good boy is a bit immature. OK - well you could go out and pay for sex. But that aside, you don't have a relationship. And I think that, not sex per se, is your issue.

I was 21 when I lost my virginity. I married the only woman I have ever fucked. I am now a married bisexual cocksucker. I have not fucked my wife for years.

Yeah it's pretty normal. I saw on wiki that like 35% of 19 year olds were virgins. That's not weird.

so what im a virgin and i am also 19 so what that's called peer pressure or if you dont want to or your saving it for marriage i know i am so what its perfectly normal

I turned 20 last week and I still am. I suppose we're just waiting for someone we can trust with it :)

i'm also 19.5 and a virgin x) lol though it's not common i think it's pretty normal. but also it's because i don't try to have sex, which i guess is pretty weird because i don't even want a boyfriend =\ maybe i should make a new IIN post.... x|

its not normal to be a virgin at 19 thats for sure ... but there isnt anything wrong with it ... perhaps your just a late bloomer or not to socially skilled etc

Youre all right. Dont worry, nobody lives your Life but you and you are not in a hurry. Until the right person, moment and passion arrives dont go to to waste your first time. You hace to feeling special for yourself always and be sure that for your sexual partner too

Wait to you get married, if you a virgin and your new wife's a virgin then you have nothing to worry about. both of you can use your virginity. out of love for each other. remeber, having sex and making love is not the same. anybody can have just sex, but making love means two people in love with each other having sex in the name of love. just having sex means two horny people having sex but with no love but in the of lust.

You should just wait til you're sure you're ready to lose it. You don't want to regret it later on, Do you ? Many people wish they could go back, And not have had sex when they did. Don't rush into it. Being a virgin at 19.5 isn't bad.

Woops I mean boy I didn't read the whole thing :/ .. And besides most girls like that

Girl that's soo good I'm your age and I could go back I would keep my virgiinity it's kinda like power lol

Sex connects you to someone emotionally. I lost my virginity at 17 I'm now 20. And I still feel attatched to the guy I first had sex with. Sex is a great thing but it should be done with wisdom. I know alot of people who are waiting and they are completely happy. Make sure it's with someone You care about and vice versa.

wait for the one. it isn't cool to just have sex with some random chick. sex for my boyfriend and I is a way to connect romantically. if you want that with some Radom chick, be my guest lol

round up about 50 bucks and call a whore...30 years from now you probably wont remember your firsts name anyway..

Good for u, I'd say save it fr the right girl, I lost mine to a girl I didn't love n it's not the same to hve sex with someone u love compared to just a girl

I was 19 and when I lost it I went crazy...

I lost my virginty when I was 14 haha

Sorry mynas it is normal maybe we can conect I'm a great girl I'm fun,give space to the guy that I would date but I'm the best kisser

It's like wat the hell let's go fuck a girl...so stop jerking off!

Stick to your values and wait. Years down the road you will save yourself and your future spouse pain and misery of dealing with each others past by waiting.

@plzdonglaugh ,
I'm none of those you mentioned

You are a really good person stay strong lose it to someone who cares for you

Keep it for if u r not in the mood

I'm young too, and I've been planning to lose my virginity to a close friend, rather than just a random guy.
I wouldn't feel safe with someone else and I feel like I want to enjoy the first time I have sex, and that means I need someone I care for.

I lost it with a guy I wasn't that bothered about, he was a pretty good friend of mine, and I only did it because I wanted to get rid of my virginity. It was pretty good, and I don't feel bad about it...

What I mean to say is- get yourself a shag if you're uncomfortable being a virgin then get yourself someone who you really love, or embrace it :)

I was 26 and desperately wanted to lose it, and lost it to the wrong person. I know at your age, it seems like if you don't have sex soon you never will. But seriously, wait for the right person, and don't do anything you'll regret later.

BTW, I did end up meeting someone special and now I'm married.

i am 24 and first time i had sex i was 21 cuz i was waiting for the right one so it's really ok

I think your friends are the abnormal ones. You may think the entire world has sex under 20, but you'd be wrong. There are actually a lot of people who remain virgins until marriage. Most just keep it under wraps.

I understand how you feel. All my friends are having sex, but me and I'm 18. There are SO many times that I just wanna go have sex with a guy that I don't even care about, but doesn't that just defeat the purpose of sex? I think you should wait for the right girl. Of course, it's your choice. Good luck!

Dude, Some girls appreciate that in a guy.. save yourself for the right one

I don't know... I guess some people can some can't. I'm older than u 20, and didn't have sex. Never even had a gf. I would want one, I guess... because I know what it would feel like sort of (I had a maybe once... didn't count). It broke my heart a little when she later said no, after she said she was crazy about me... and she never told me I was engaged. I think that's emotional attachment.

I still want live by myself (no parents), before I even think relationship. Although I wouldn't mind now. And I'm definitely not sneaking off and having sex with someone I don't know... she turn out be crazy and break my legs or something so I stay with her.

awww. i think that's awesome! I'm a Virgin too and i think it's hard sometimes alos but stay strong!

Well ask yourself which would you regret more, if you don't mind loosing it with some random flimsy girl then go ahead