Is it normal to be a virgin at the age of 20?

Hi im 20 years old as of 2 weeks ago and im still a virgin! :s i dont why, it just never happened,but i do work alot ive had income and jobs since i was 7 years old so ive never really had time for a girlfriend, and its not that im scared,im a pretty confident guy and everything and ive done everything but sex and when i do do stuff with a girl i get so far and i freeze up kinda, i dont know how to conversate into sex..like i have no problem telling a girl im still a virgin but its still embarassing..but if any women on here could give me their point if view thatd be awesome,like if a guy told you he was still a virgin at 20 or older would you find it funny or what?

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  • chatter289

    It's so silly people asking question about is it normal to be a virgin at the age.... Yes it's bloody normal. You have not met the right person yet so fee proud about that and you're not going around having sex with people of god knows what they have.... Wait, find th person you love and fuck to your hearts content after lol

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  • Cindy_isCool

    it's perfectly fine dude. and girls think it's pretty cute actually. you're waiting for the right time and that's good.

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  • Alison89

    Studies have proven that if you don't have sex by the time you're 17, there's a 98 percent probability that you never, ever will.

    Okay, I'm kidding. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at the age of 20.

    You said you get to a point where you kind of freeze up. What does that mean? Do you break contact and go home? That would be really awkward to me. Maybe if you start to feel that way, you could just hang in there and let nature take it's course?

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  • CarlBrigsby

    theres not problem with being a virgin bro. DON'T force it. When you are ready you should have no problem relaxing. Also your first time will suck, but probably not as much if the girl isnt a virgin.

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  • rin

    For the last question no I wouldn't. I do know someone who's 23 and he's still a virgin. He's a good guy just hasn't had the time or the luck.

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  • Randomguy4361

    there is nothing funny about being a virgin at any age

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    • ultimafate

      Easy there chirps!

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  • TareLee

    My bf was 23 when he lost his. Totally normal.

    And don't go pay for it. You don't want your first experience to be your last. Cuz good luck finding a real gf after u catch herpes from a prostitute. Gawd people give awful advice here

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  • ricster81

    dude im 30 and still a virgin so no worries take your time and enjoy your time with each other

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    • daydreamer394

      Are you still?

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  • volozi

    Go pay for it. Seriously. It's good fun and good practice.

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  • Lovecanher

    I think it's hot I would love to take vCard soooooo sexy

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  • bigol'dick

    There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. At least you're not tied down with a bunch of kids because you had lots of sex and didn't use protection (or protection didn't work).

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  • GameOfThrones

    I was almost 23 when I lost mine. Just wait for the one you love, don't worry about what other peoples sex life is like.

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  • zyxwxxx

    It's normal and it's awesome.

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  • dods22

    Sweetie this is completely normal I'm 22 and I didn't lose mine till I was 21. It's not about when you lose it, its about why you lost it. You don't want your first time to be something that was pressured on you and something that you will regret. My reasons were the same as yours because I grew up working a lot but i also has other priorities but i also didn't want to have sex just because everyone else was. I waited till i was ready and i suggest that you do the same.

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  • jtutty

    I was a virgin till the age of 27 when I lost my virginity to a cucumber.
    (That's my bum-virginity...not my penis-virginity, I hope to lose that soon)

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  • caitienall

    honestly I'm a girl and I think it's adorable and I wouldn't make fun because maybe you don't have the desire to go farther because you haven't found the right girl yet pluss you just turned 20 youve got plenty of time!

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  • Mummy'sAngel

    I always wanted to lose mine with someone who was also a virgin. So if i was older I'd have still wanted to do same. Lucky I found the lad for me at 16, I'm still with him and now were both 18... I have a mate at 24 and she's still a virgin and waiting for the right lad to come along

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  • Malaglinir

    If it embarrasses you, then just lie about it. Unless you are painfully unattractive or terrible at fabricating stories, nobody will ever know the difference. If it doesn't embarrass you, then I'm not sure why else it would be an issue.

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  • bokentoe

    i was a virgin until i was 19. i had barely done a fair few things with women till then, but never sex. the opportunity just presented itself one night purely by accident and i took it. you got nothing to worry about, but you shouldn't need to tell women you're still a virgin and that question shouldn't come up at any point anymore at that age either. if you're getting to go down on a woman, chances are you'll be able to have sex with them too as that's usually the hardest part. just try and see what happens. you'll know when you know. but it's not weird at all. we all have different opportunities.

    my advice would simply be to be ready for when it does happen. if you can show her a good time, then the rest doesn't matter and she won't care if you were a virgin or not.

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  • misslogical

    Keep the good work there too much going on out there like HIV/Aids unplanned pregnancy do you wanna risk that?you're a expensive rare diamond and others are cheap dirty cubic zirconium

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  • IanH

    It's not "normal" as most men have lost their virginity by that age according to surveys. There is nothing wrong with it though so don't worry about it. No one can tell if you're a virgin or not anyways.

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