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And rather than losing my virginity, i prefer to do NoFap, also i'm avoiding PMO (Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm) because that gives me more positive and healthier life.
And i'm a male.
But by being a virgin you can never enjoy the pleasure of your cum coming out of you.
do whatever you want, you not wanting to have sex isn't hurting anybody who gives a shit
It's normal to not want to lose your virginity yet, but it's not normal to deny yourself all that other stuff. It's just unhealthy to do that.
Thanks for your response, tbh, I want, especially when you're in nofap, your sex desire extremely high. But I have to hold my lust. And I think if I have sex for the first time, it's going to destroy my mind, I'm going to lose focus to my schedule, my college, and keep doing sex and masturbate.
I want to have sex inside of marriage, I'm not trying to be a hypocrite, if one day i (accidently, unconsciously) get into a situation where i sleep with a beautiful girl, i don't know i can refuse it or not.
How blue are your balls son? Gotta milk that snake on occasion or you'll have health problems.
Throughout human history, people have denied themselves all sorts of things that are the result of completely natural needs and drives - sex, food, social contact, shelter, etc. In the old days (and in some places even now), fools would give masochists like this handouts because they were believed to be more godly.
You're free to deny yourself orgasms, chocolate, booze, video games, or whatever, but you'll get neither alms nor admiration from me.
A well-rounded, fully-experienced life consists of balance and moderation in all things across the whole gamut of human potential. Making a huge song and dance about your self-denial comes across as pathetic, because you're basically implying that either you refuse to ever touch your own genitals, or you're jerking off constantly like a deranged monkey. It's also implicitly critical of people who have a healthier and more positive approach to life, which only highlights your own youth, ignorance, and naivety.
I think this is an admirable position. All that stuff about denying yourself release being unhealthy is a bunch of nonsense. Your body has a natural release mechanism in the form of "wet dreams". They are normal for someone practicing abstinence and nothing to be ashamed of.
My girlfriend and I, both divorced, did not wait until after marriage the first time. Thanks to our faith and the Divorce Care program, we have vowed to wait until after marriage.