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So yeah im a virgin still & will be 19 in December. Every tells me that i shouldve lost that years ago. Smh Dudes always leaving me because im still a virgin. That sucks a lot
Of course it is normal. It makes me sad that this question even needs to be asked :(
It's not a big deal. Forget about the whole marriage milestone and wait until it feels right.
This is what society does to us...it's so sad. It's perfectly normal, consider yourself blessed. You don't want to be all over the place. You want to wait for that special person. It will be the best feeling in the world..
Experience? I'm 18, had plenty opportunities to have sex and yet & i'm still a virgin and I don't plan on giving it up until I fall in love.
I can relate to you. (Im 18, female and a virgin) I've had a number of opportunites for sex but I just wasn't in the mood. Sounds really odd but I just didn't want to have sex with them. I havn't found someone who I've been madly attracted to want to do it. It's not as though I'm waiting for Mr. Right or anything, because I don't have an idealistic view on life like that, but I just want to meet a guy who can give me some respect to a degree and know how to push my buttons so that I can enjoy myself. (Most guys I've fooled around with have been so self-centered!)
I'm turning 21 in December (lots of December babies here I see) and I'm still a virgin. I'm planning on keeping it for a really long time. Mostly because someone bet I'm going to lose it before the age of 30, but whatever..I'm determined to win this bet.
Fuck the guys who left you. Abstinence is a mature thing and virginity is taken way too lightly. This is a boy speaking and I understand what most guys want but as a person you should view it as a privilege that married couples have... And if they don't give you respect for keeping yourself pure for the right guy then you probably don't want to be with them in the first place.
Be proud that you're still Virgin. It shows how important it is for you to share that moment with your husband (when you get married).
Yes, it's normal. Ignore does idiots you know. You should wait for that right person for as long as you need to. Nothing good can come from rushing into things especially, when your heart is not completely in it.
It is completely normal to be a virgin at 18. I didn't even lose my virginity until I was 18, and I had plenty of chances. You'll know when the time is right, trust me. Until then, don't let guys try and pressure you into giving it up, it should be entirely your decision.
I'm 18 and still a virgin too. I've thought of doing it but i don't know if i'mready! Older friends are always telling me that it's ok to wait some of them lost their virginity in their teens and regret it
I would never leave someone who was a virgin, in fact it would make me more attracted to that girl if I found that out due to the rarity at which this occurs in this day and age. Though to be honest I would immediately suspect this person of lying, esp if they were an attractive person.
Good riddance to anyone who walks out on you because of this, they arent worth your time anyway. Having morals in an immoral world is difficult but keep up the good work !
if you find some one good enough who truely likes you then go for it! sex is better if you have a connection with the other person. DONT get drunk and be easy. its not a good look. if anything, as an 18 year old male, its a bit of a turn off nowadays after bad experiences and such. REMEMBER "you cant respect someone who doesnt respect themselves"
Yes its normal, dont let these teenagers tell you shit, when i was a teen and a virgin people would discriminate me, but i lost my virginity at the age of 17
this is not the middle ages. stop pushing your religious values on others, sex before marriage? dont be stupid.
Tell me something, before you buy a car, do you just dive headfirst into the purchase or do you take it for a test spin to see how it feels?
Sex is no different. There are people who have great sexual chemistry and others who just completely suck together in bed, the only way to find out is to experiment and see what you like and what kind of person you fit best with. That's what life is all about, experience. I know lots of people who saved it till marriage, had sex, realized they just didn't have a good sex life with their partner and things just didn't click, and they divorced or they don't believe in divorce so now they're stuck in a marriage they aren't happy with. Sex is an important aspect of a relationship.
Stop trying to make people feel bad about something that's completely, 100% okay.
It's weird if guys leave u if ur a virgin,because in arab countires if u got married and ur husband did not know ur not a virgin ur husband will leave u + u will bring dishonnor and all people will be talking that ur a bitch.And if ur husband knew and u got married to him u'll be always accused of cheating on him.So I don't see what is so bad in being a virgin! Are you been called names ? Is it so important to have sex than to find the right person? Is it people's business to know such stuff.It's none of anybody's business,it's ur life.
Totally normal, you're still young. I'm slightly older than you and still a virgin. Do it with someone you care about, when you feel that it's the right time.
Men leave you when they find out you're a virgin? Do you live in Bizarro Jersey?
Totally normal, go for it with the right person. Married or not, it's when you feel comfortable.