Is it normal to be a virgin at 20?

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So I'm in my third year of university, love it can't get enough of it. The thing is I'm incredible horny all the time, have barely been able to get any dates (due to the intense nature of my program) and really really want to get laid. I just wonder is it normal to be a virgin at 20? I have only had one serious relationship and that was in high school and lasted 2.5 years. Since then I have barely been on three dates. I'm lonely and really want to get laid, but not with just anyone...I just can't seem to find anyone who is interested in me and wants to have sex. Am I weird?

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  • littleone
    14 years ago

    Nope. A couple of my girl friends are in their early twenties and are also in very demanding programs, are also virgins. They're very pretty too, so it has nothing to do with any inadequacies.

    Your time will come, don't fret. Probably when you least expect it, too.

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  • WildUtopia
    12 years ago

    Do people think this is a joke?!? Is that why you guys are posting crazy sh*t about becoming an Islam wife, f'ing a teenager, and other hella stupid stuff? Geez i didn't want t be the one to say this, but you guys are so dorky

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    No. That is not weird at all. But try to make room in your schedule to circulate to increase the chances of meeting someone.

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  • anya07
    13 years ago

    its quiet normal.

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  • Wolfyy
    14 years ago

    It isn't normal by society's standards but he'll, whhat is these days? As long as you're okay with being a virgin at 20, that's fine. You just wanna wait for the perfect moment.

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  • [email protected]
    9 years ago

    Don't be in such a rush to be a fuckin whore already,sex isn't that fuckin important.

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  • Asstastics
    9 years ago

    Buy a porno magazine and masturbate. Your life will be easier, and disease free.

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  • denise1290
    11 years ago

    Normal

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  • WildUtopia
    12 years ago

    And I'm a v..17 and I don't care about losing it because I mostly focus on the romantic and loving part of relationships..yeahh

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  • suspicion
    14 years ago

    No don't feel that way your doing just fine. Wait till' you find someone special who's worth it.

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  • kim1988
    14 years ago

    I don't think it's weird at all. I'm 21 and I'm a virgin and that's out of choice. I just want to wait till marriage.

    It might sound old fashioned but I know it's the right thing to do for me. Others might not find it right for them.

    Who says you need to rush into these things anyway?

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  • nownk4me
    14 years ago

    Not at all, just find yourself someone who is up for the challenge of breaking you in.

    If your outgoing and on your way to a fancy dress party go with "V" plates strapped to you. Make a joke you haven%%u2019t been broken in, both men and women always want to be someone%%u2019s first, its one of the top 10 things to do before you die.

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  • guitaranddrugs
    14 years ago

    Lol loser.. jk man. Idk wait if you want or just go fuck some drunken teenager. your choice :p

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  • opensky
    14 years ago

    hi,
    To be vergin is the normal state if not married.
    Get married first.
    Think of Islam. It is the solution for everyone problem. You can be close to God and get a good husband who is practising muslim.
    All your rights as a woman are garanteed in Islam and you just have to pick them up.
    Good luck

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