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I am a 19 your old guy and a virgin. There are severale people that acuse me of bing gay becouse I never had a girlfriend, a date,a first kiss, or got laid. Becouse of this people think i'm gay this is realy pissing me off.
Don't worry about it. Why would any dude care about what your doing with your dick anyways?
It's normal that you're a virgin.
Some people are stupid and can't understand logic, don't listen to them.
Perfectly normal. You have no idea how many times I've been called gay for my forever aloneness. And I'm 24 at this point, so...
I have a long term friend that is a virgin by choice. In high school and college everybody would accuse him of being gay because he didn't have sex with girls. As far as I was aware, gay means sexual attraction to the same gender, not abstinence, so screw the haters there is nothing wrong with you or with being a virgin.
Totally normal man. I tell you what, I've fucked more than a few girls and it accomplished nothing at all. People find other reasons to call you gay even if you have gotten laid. Just be more confident man. One day you're gonna find that special pussy. You will love that pussy, and that pussy will love you!
That is one of the most ridiculous things I've ever heard and actually hear about too. It pisses me off also when guys get accused of that.
But don't listen to them, never rush; do what YOU feel like is best for YOURSELF. NOT them, meaning society of the norm.
ignore them.
I'm reminded of something Inara said in Firefly - "It's not embarrassing to be a virgin. It's simply one state of being."
Besides - you likely just haven't met anyone worth being with yet. There's no need to rush into things just to keep others happy
Sadly yes that is normal as too many people today seem to think it is normal to have sex shortly after one is biologically able to. Nothing wrong with you, just how sex obsessed our society has become is what is really the problem.
we're same man...they tease me because i act like a gay... but im not really gay... im a straight man!!!
I don't know if it's normal, but it happened to me too. I was a slim young guy and I was a virgin, so people would ask me if I was gay.
ur worried to much about the act of sex, just hang out with a girl you are attracted to and sex will come naturally, girls dont expect you to be superman your first time having sex. You dont wanna wait till your a old man to have sex with a bunch of wrinkly bitches. Just take my advice and hang out with a girl you like,
Unfortunately this is normal. I'm in the same position as you (except that time at the night club but I didn't even get her name :S). I get the same kind of reaction but you don't have to pay any attention to it. As long as you are confident in your sexuality just let the haters hate then one day prove them wrong :).
I've had the same problem recently. I'm a girl and my big sister thinks I'm gay because I dont go on dates with guys. It's pretty ridiculous now that I think about it. Don't let them get the best of you. You do what you know is right.
My ex best friend used to be like that until he got his first girlfriend and he's all in love with her. He changed and turned on people just to be what she wanted and now we aren't friends anymore :(.
You need to make up a story or two that's all. Just say yeah had her.
Had her too. And her. She loved it.
It's all bullshit talk between guys your age and they are all talking bullshit. Just go along with their games and quietly confidently say yeah sure I've had this one and that one. One night stands. You could even say there was a drunk 30 year old at some party who was all over you and you had her, that way you won't have to give them a name, as "she comes from another town".
How the hell do they know you're a virgin?! Tell them you've ridden loads of girls, including their mother, who keeps begging for more.
Seriously did you TELL them that you are a virgin? Why is all I can think?!
OF COURSE THAT'S NORMAL! People just want you to lose it so you can be on the low-level with them. Only (in my opinion) when you find the love of your life and marry them, should you ever lose it. You should be proud to be a virgin (just don't brag about it, because there are some people who lost theirs and regret it. You ARE normal, my friend.
That's stupid.
Unless you've never had a girlfriend but you have had a boyfriend.
But if not, then that is stupid.
I have the Same problem as you. I think there is even a post here where the OP says that, and im sure they're talking about me.
the Car-obsessed friend bit in the story is what makes me think this.
well, are you gay? If not you need to get some pussy to stop them from teasing you.