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Is it normal to be 23yrs old and never had a girlfriend nor have sex? I'm a decent looking guy and the 2 girls I have a attracted were 2 big girls (yuck!) and I've tried online dating for 5 years or whatever. I can't seem to get anywhere. I refuse to setting for a big girl.
Dont rush in life looking for partners because you may choose the wrong one.Take time,in the right moment God will give u the right partner for a better relationship.
86% Normal. That does make me feel a little better about myself. I guess I'm just slow with girls. I personally think it should be legal to date until your 18 years old. That way teenage pregnancy/teenage depression would go down.
It would make me feel better knowing that people 8 years younger then me or whatever can't have success saying I'm still having trouble at 23.
Nothing has worked for me so far. And yes to scaried to make a move. Without question. If I got a girl to hang out. I don't want to scare her off.
There are no girls in my life right now. No one I'm interested in at the moment.
I'm pretty sure I'll be alone for a long run. Like pushing 30 I wouldn't be surprised. Or longer.
I bet you have never made a move, because you would feel guilty that you 'pressured' them into it. As a woman who has been in this scenerio a few times I can offer you the following advice:
1. dont be too needy - wait to call (for ex)
2. dont be too graby - always wanting to hold hands etc...
3. dont try to brag too much but when the appropriate opportunity comes up where you can tell a (good) story about yourself do it.
4. ask her questions about her interests, but not too many
5. Be comfortable with yourself, or at least act comfortable (dont figit to much, play with your keys or tap stuff etc.)- sign of confidence
6. Dont over do it - dont take her to a super expensive resturaunt on the first date - but not to a shitty one either
7. Dont complain about stupid shit
8. Stand up straight, tall and proud
9. Walk like you belong
10. Really listen when she is talking, but dont STARE at her....
11. Dont check out other girls too much, but dont not look as this may give the impression that your date doesnt have to TRY to impress you
12. Dont be too too nice but be a gentleman
In conclusion, you want her to feel like your a good catch, and you choose to be with her on this date - you could have other girls but you picked her.
Just some ideas... I'm in no way saying this is absolutely right. Good Luck!
23 years old and you've only attracted 2 women in your whole life?? Fat ones...?
Anyway, I dont know what advice to give you. Your post is way too inconclusive.