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IM 21 but i've never liked drinking & clubbing. I only go out to satisfy my friends. is this normal??.....why are teenS so facinated buy whole clubbing scene????
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your not a teen for fcks sake ur an adult, do what u want and stop worrying about other people
I agree with the way you feel 100%. Once in a while, sure, drinking and being social is kind of fun. But how do people do it every couple weeks? Or every weekend? or every DAY?
I enjoy not being trashy, as well. So I don't want to be drunk and come off that way for 20% of my lifetime. It's just not worth it.
Kinda lame but you will be better off in the long run. Just stop going all together, why make your friends happy, if they are real friends they won't care if you don't go.
Yes my gf is your age and has never liked doing any of that. I am that way too now but wasn't always. It's mostly a maturity thing. Or that's part of it. Honestly ppl who are really into drinking/partying/clubbing kind of make me sick bc it's so shallow. But at the same time once in a blue moon I can relate. I'd say your fine, maybe find some other friends who don't as well
In addition to your old ones so you can do it less
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You are not into it and that is normal. Instead of trying to figure out why they like it, maybe figure out what you are into & pursue it. That way you will meet friends you don't find perplexing because you share a common interest.
Not all people like to go clubbing. Personally for me it depends on the club. I can't stand those massive City clubs. Maybe you just need to find a place you like to go. Some of my university friends would never go clubbing but would go down to the local pub every so often and drink a pint or two.
Otherwise you don't have to go out all the time but do it once in a while as its a good way to meet new people. Plus there is the chance of getting lucky.
totally fine
i hate clubbing and stuff
find some like-minded people and meet them