Is it normal to be a straight guy attracted to the idea of guys?

sexuality is a spectrum, its normal and its nice that youre comfortable enough with your sexuality to explore it

I love being bisexual and I'm an advocate of exploring your sexuality, it keeps you more open-minded to the world. I once read a funny (probably not experimentally based fact) that 10% of people are actually straight, 10% are actually homosexual and the other 80% are bi-curious/ bisexual :). Found that quite funny and wanted to share it.

You already fantasize about men so you are attracted to them.

You're probably a Kinsey 3-4. Most likely a 3 though.

Not liking the idea of a penis doesn't change the fact that you are attracted to men though, and that in itself is the main decider in your sexuality.

I know plenty of girls who don't like penises but that doesn't make them not straight, y'know?

Part of you not being comfortable with penises is probably also your unfamiliarity with them. The more you experiment and explore that side of your sexuality the more you might come around to it.

I was wondering if there were guys like you out there. I think your perfectly normal im bi and i would love a guy like you.

i think you are in denial of being bi. you like both girls and guys. good on you. sexuality is so diverse.

I'm sort of gay and I'm not comfortable with dicks.

If I had to put a label on you, I'd say, bisexual, BUT if you don't identify that way, that's fine. Sexuality is about identity as well as attraction. I know women who are occasionally attracted to men, but identify as lesbians because they don't have sex with men. I also know men who are occasionally attracted to other men, but identify as straight. You can decide whether you think you're bi or straight.

I'm bi - big deal.

If you don't like dick, then you don't have to like dick :) That doesn't mean someone else doesn't.

You're open enough with yourself to experiment. Go you. Be comfortable saying you're bi and the rest will be along naturally.

if you want a more frank response? --

Means you're a top. You GET the sucking and you DO the fucking. Get it?

My ex was a top. I'm a top. It didn't work out. Gotta find the common ground with that sexuality stuff. Guys are fun, but I know what you're saying about girls.

Can't live with em, can't live without em... Thank goodness guys are independent.

You are, in that case, semi-bi

You don't have to like penis to be bi/gay.

You are human, and one who shouldn't let labels be applied. Do what you like you don't need to fit into a stereotype. Society is kinda fucked that way.

I am me, I do one day want to suck a dick. I love women. I don't ever want to fuck a guy, nor have him fuck me....

That is that, I like being me and I don't let others or society's ideals define me.

Hey... I'm totally the opposite, I like the penis and all it can do, ...but there is no attraction to the man,( physically or emotionally), that it's attached to.

i have a friend that is straight and only likes girls but gets turned on with another guy ONLY when there the girl is present (3some)...he is more attracted to the girl being able to handle two men than actually seeing the guy. perhaps thats what you like?