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I grew up sheltered from racism and hate, so naturally I am not a racist or a hater. Im white, and I actually like Blacks, Mexicans, and Asians more than white people. (Not that I have anything against my race) I always find black and hispanic guys more attractive than whites.
Is it just that opposites attract or am I a weird person?
You need to understand that there is no such thing as reverse racism. It is really such a poorly constructed term with no meaning what so ever. You can be a racist, and you can hate your own race, but you cannot be a reverse racist. It is all just racism. You state that you do not hate your race, there fore you are not racist towards whites.
But, what you are talking about here seems more like sexual preference than being racist. I am attracted to stereotypic looking jewish girls, and I have no idea why. That doesn't mean that I hate all the blacks, hispanics, asians and christians because I find jewish girls more attractive. It actually has no bearing on my attitudes towards other cultures, it is just who I am attracted to.
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The OP doesn't sound like a racist really.
The OP perhaps used an incorrect phrase to describe his or her self.
I think the problem is most people see "reverse racism" and they think "being judgmental against caucasians"
In the OP's case however he or she simply said "I feel comfortable being around people who are different from me."
That's not racism.
Racism would be to say "race-whatever sucks balls. they are all stupid. my race is better."
The OP never insulted ANY race.
I'm black and loe da asians and hispanic dudes and have no attraction to most black dudes, id say you are normal you are attracted to who you are attracted to, no racisim in that.
I grew up sheltered from racism and hate until I met blacks and mexicans. Then I became racist.
" Is it just that opposites attract or am I a weird person? "
You ask two yes or no questions that are nearly mutually exclusive. Like I think that "YES" opposites attract and "NO" you are not a weird person.
My advice to you is to STOP ASKING POORLY WORDED QUESTIONS.
I would say you need to calm down. This is obviously a young man who is confused as to whether or not his feelings are acceptable. You need to worry less about grammar and more about the emotions these people are putting into their posts. Its completely normal to feel a reverse-racism type emotion. It generally comes from being around racist people too much in a society that has moved on already. You develop a friendship with someone of a different ethnicity and before you know it, the anti-diverse feeling drilled into you by your family disappears. Don't feel weird, and don't worry, your completely normal.
-MW
im not racist r i might be depends how u look at it but
i have no problem calling a black person a nigger because that word was a hateful word with a hateful meaning IN THE SLAVE DAYS which i do not think were good times and glab they get treated equaly but when a black guy gets offended by sum1 calling them a nigger i getreally pissed off and start shouting when the fuck did u get whipped when the fuck ave u bin denyed a job because of ur colour? oh never? then dont fucking get offended by just the wordnigger when the black people in the slave days had the word made up to describe them and were beat and whpped
see i would strongly dissagree if someone called a black person from the slave days a ni**er because they went through the pain but when a fucking punk gts offended by it it jus pisses me off i mean if a boys parents wasnt married before he was born and he got called a bastard should he get offended? yes because he is a basterd in its rawest ment form i think todays black people who get offendedby nigger should be given a good smack and remember they didnt go thru the hell the others did
First of all, racism is racism is racism. There's no such thing as reverse-racism.
Second of all, it's not racist to prefer people of a certain skin-color or nationality as romantic/sexual partners. Racism is considering people of a certain ethnicity (or skin-color) superior to others and judging people solely on that criteria.
You simply have a thing for people with darker skin.
I have a thing for "stereotypic looking jewish girls" like someone else mentioned and red-haired girls. Is that racist? No, because I don't view others as inferior in any way. It's just my sexual preference.
Exactly.
I know men who prefer Asian women. I know an Indian woman who preferred Latino men.
Having a preference isn't racism.
Racism is when you treat someone badly because of you've decided everyone from that race is the same. Or when you decide that an entire race is beneath you. etc.
yes and no cuz u asked 2 diff ? but hey u like what u like dnt let anybody tell u its not normal screw them i've only dated 1 white guy in my entire life 0 asians 0 indians n 0 mexicans but one thing I've learned skin doesn't matter it's the person inside...I actually have a black friend that only dates whites n indians she cant stand black guys but it's for deep reasons so whatever floats your boat is thats all im saying