Is it normal to be a nymphomaniac with ocd/add and bi-polar
I am 23 while my girlfriend is 2 months older than I am. We are both fresh college graduates from ivy league schools. I'm a software engineer while she's practising 2 be a neurosurgeon. She is the girl of my dreams. She is extremely beautiful with a classic blonde look & stunning jawdropping face. Her body is exceptional, like a girl straight out of a playboy mag.
However, she is deeply flawed. She has been clinically diagnosed as a nymphomaniac with ocd/add & bi-polar disorder.
We have been dating almost 4 years now & it's been incredibly difficult but I love her too much 2 dump her just out of the blue & it might make her commit suicide (bipolar.)
I have learned 2 live with her bipolar issues (she rarely displays symptoms anymore). The ocd is another major psychological issue she has. Now, I'm not the cleanest guy out there but I'm not dirty either. However, my gf is always cleaning & arranging. she comes over 2 my house (huge 5 bedroom & a pool in the yard) & just starts cleaning all day even when it's clean. It's pointless getting her 2 stop as she will start all over again when she's done.... & again... & again. It is sad watching her clean d swimming pool & falling inside it, or mopping a perfectly polished wood floor for the 5th time in a row.
she covered all my furniture in the house & my car seats with plastic bags so they dont get stained, and she knows exactly how everything in my house is arranged so any little tilt in how my cds are stacked and she goes on another cleaning episode. I have friends intentionally mess up my house on weekends just so she has something 2 clean during weekdays as it is depressing watching her clean a perfectly clean house.
Her 3rd & major problem is that she's a full blown nymphomaniac & has been diagnosed by 2 different doctors. I wouldn't call her a slut as it took me 7 months to finally get her 2 have sex when after asking her out back in college. She was playing hard 2 get.
However, after we had sex, when confessed 2 me that once she loved someone, it became incredibly hard to stop wanting them in bed. Loved it for 3 unforgettable days but then I suddenly realized she was for real & wanted 2 have sex 9 or ten times a day, everyday!
Nowadays, we just have sex till I pass out or am in too much pains. I try to keep up but I cant satisfy her anymore :(
Problem is that she cant cheat & get d sex somewhere else as her psychological condition makes her think she will die if she cheats on her lover (ridiculous right?) & i secretly wish she could just cheat & get satisfied & just let my genitals have some peace.
She's richer than i am & can easily have any guy she wants with her looks & intelligence (all my friends & haters back in school wanted her) & she has always been d center of attention wherever she goes & most people dont know of these dirty secrets & psychological issues she's got.
Is this normal? (duh..) anyone got advice for me? i'm not dumping her, just need advise. i love her.