Is it normal to be a nineteen year old boy and still be a virgin?

I'm nineteen and most people say I'm pretty good looking but I cant figure out why I can't get a girlfriend. I think its because I look younger than I actually am. So the girls my age don't wanna be with me but maybe girls younger than me do, but I'm not around any young girls enough to give it a try.

I could get a less attractive girl but I don't wanna loose my virginity to some fugly.lol This might have to do with my pickyness. The girls I know wanna go out with me just don't seem my type, and the girls I think are more on my level aren't that open to conversation so I automatically think they dont want to have anything to do with me. This sucks, I almost feel as if I'm running out of time even when I know I'm not.

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  • Racoon

    If your looking for a model-like chick you're going to wait for a f*cking long time.

    You might be passing out on a girl that LOVES you just because you are aiming for a super-chick.

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  • ladymantoloveyoulongtime

    I understand you not wanting to loose your virginity to just anyone but I honestly dont think you should be so picky. Obviously you arent as "hot" as you think you are otherwise girls would be flocking over you and it doesnt have anything to do with how old you look. A lot of girls like the baby face look eg. Michael J Fox. Maybe they are sensing that you only want to talk to them to get in their panties. Try making friends with ladies first, get to know them and then go from there.

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  • gako

    It's important to keep it for somebody who you love. Thus, why getting married first is a better way to know if that person is worth it.

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  • bestPPL

    Join a fraternity

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  • lalas

    Yeaaah you're gay .
    :)

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  • 343Boy

    Same here, male 19 with pretty high standards, I think it's fine, you shouldn't have to lower your standards.

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  • Ribbit.

    Well try not to be too picky, most girls arn't terribly fugly, find someone who you want to be with for personality instead of just looks. But it's totally fine to still be a virgin no worries!

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  • Ill have sex with you (:

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  • Sumwun

    At that age you should be concerned with what college you're going to, not how to bone girls.

    Just do your schooling. Getting 4 years of college then 3 years of graduate school is a greater investment than having 5 kids with your "soul-mate" while pulling in a 30k per year income.

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  • Netsnake

    It's perfectly normal to be a nineteen year old and still be a virgin. I'm a 24 year old virgin, was in a relationship for seven years (ended up not working out, sadly...that's life.)

    Still a virgin. I'm waiting until I'm married.

    Don't have sex just to have sex. Let it mean something.

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  • roxylinds

    Never settle!

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  • confusedteen33

    Don't worry man. I am the same. I'm 19 and look young. I have younger friends that have told me girls their age are talking about me but I too never have the opportunity to even meet them. Sometime soon man, don't worry.

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  • dat_wierd_one

    yea its normal if you havent tried getting laid but if u have tried and failed nd ur still a virgin get sum pussy quick even if its a fat chick. fat chicks need luv too.

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  • manicansandunicorns

    You should do what you think is right. It's completely normal to wait.

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  • kev775

    Well done Aussie it's dicks like you that we don't need so take you opinion and stick it up your ass and your probably a virgin yourself

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    • aussiewolf

      hahaha your funny kev, are you one of those virgins who cant get laid too?

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  • Laurie

    You sound normal to me. When you meet the right girl and your on the same wave length emotionally and have physical chemistry, you will both know it and sex will just happen. Don't worry about this, just concentrate on your studies, your job or whatever and be open to meeting new girls. Sometimes life just happens, we don't plan it. Be happy with yourself for not jumping in bed with the first chick available just to have meaningless sex.

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  • NormalJohn

    SMH! Stop it right now! I didn't have sex until I was 31 (And it wasn't even that great). Just be yourself, and you will naturally find a girl who will want you in a sexual manner. In the meantime, stop playing around with Johnson and his two sidekicks! Just be cool, and girls will like that.

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  • Bubbaclaw

    Dude there's nothing abnormal about being a virgin at that age. Although I chased everything in a skirt from the age of 14 on, I lost my virginity to my ex-wife at 22. (I'm 28 now.)

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  • alv1592

    it's normal to be a virgin at any age if you haven't found the right one. you shouldn't be in a hurry, especially if you're still young and have your whole life ahead.

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  • Raquelrockshard

    No.but if u want it go 4 it

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  • Jeci_Cassidy

    You sound a lot like my husband. He was a virgin when we started dating, He was 19 when he finally decided he wanted to try with me lol. He was pretty picky with girls, He didn't want a preppy girl, but he didn't want a tomboy. He was just my friend for a while and He always told me he wanted a girl like me lol. A girl that's a lot like him, Heavy metal and chains lol. That's me and then some lol. But It just goes to show you that you know what you want and you won't settle for just any broad. Hell for all you know it could a friend you already have.

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  • pasha_32510

    Same mate. I'm 19 from the uk. Going to be 20 in jan. I have high standards, and everyone I know says in good looking. Allot of girls have asked me out, but their either younger, live far, or not in my level :P. Go clubbing mate! It helps and builds your confident

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  • envy_wrath

    in the same boat as you:/

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  • adamabdel

    chill man,no rush,none at all,u'll regret loseing ur virginity unless its to some bombshell of a babe,so dont bother,hava wank,hav a smoke,chiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiill

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  • Newguy7777

    my friend lost his at 13

    and supposedly his friend lost it at 10

    ha! good thing you cant get pregnant then

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  • reillyhawkins

    dont think about it so much it doesnt matter, the more you look for a gf and fail to find one, the worse it will get

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  • Well I'm fourteen. All of the boys pressure me to have sex and I won't because they just use you for sex. I would much rather lose my virginity to somebody who has waited for the right person regardless of their age. Don't worry about it, just do it with the right girl and when the time is right.

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  • medicman

    I'm Mormon, and I'm not having sex until I get married. Currently, I'm 20.

    Don't worry about it. That stuff will eventually be attained in time.

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  • skysaiyan

    same here i just turned 22 and im still a virgin.yes i also have high standards but dont care about still being a virgin cause peer pressure doesnt affect me. i guess its normal, most of my friends are still virgens and they are older than me.

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  • lightgiver

    Im 19, had 2 girlfriends so far, and tried to get idk about 10 other girls in the past 2 years to go out with me. (tries as in got to know them, made friends with them, but couldn't convince them to go on a date).

    I been very active in trying to get laid but i haven't stumped so low as to have sex with someone i don't love just so i can say i did.

    And ya during the summer before one of my friends who is a girl had sex with some random guy she meet at a party because she recently broke up with her boyfriend and wanted to have sex before college. She actually bought the 3 date rule where if you don't have sex by the third date it wont work.

    I bring this up to her whenever we have an argument, "least i didn't have sex with a near stranger." It is a shameful way to lose your virginity but it does give you some experience so when you do find someone you can say your not a virgin and get away with it.

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  • FlipHD

    Haha, Im 18 and the same and pretty picky.
    I used to like a girl for one week, and then like another the next, So i decided not to act upon my feelings at the time.

    I see it like this, the right one hasn't come by yet. You can't control it, you've got to wait it out and you don't wanna regret it do you? So you know, don't be hasty

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  • TomT

    Norman you are. Remember a lot of guys try to leave the impression they are experienced but a fraud it is more often then you think.

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  • hisham

    maybe girls want to see strong man with look seems to be got experience in making sex with girls and make them feel in love.
    my first sex was when i 17 because i was care of this things and now i 22 and girls steel want to loss their virginity with me.

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  • TheTodd11

    proudly lost my at the unripe age of 15...

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  • Newguy7777

    Ever seen 40-Year Old Virgin?

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  • Getmyturtle

    Well it's normal especially if you look young personally I'm a girl and look older and so guys dint want to go out with me although I'm told I look awesome by most people i think it's because I'm taller than most guys I know. Oh well like I said it's normal don't worry.

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  • normal!.....I feel the same way!

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  • koifish

    I took my ex boyfriends virginty and he was 19. He felt the same way you dis

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  • It's probably because you're a gigantic faggot.

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