Is it normal to be a nice friend all your life and be disliked.

All my life uptil now I have tried to help friends in so many ways, and after I have helped them up to that point they tend to dislike me! WHY IS THAT?

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  • pambambam

    Yeah there's a girl at work that I try to be nice to since we have to work together. But once I'm too friendly she ignores me and starts being a notch. I feel she's a bit jelaous

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    • ONLYNOBI

      I feel that's part of the problem also!

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  • kevn101

    Yeah i've been in the same position as you. You have to be careful with that because people will use you and take advantage of how you're always open to help. You have to remember to put yourself first sometimes. No one else is going to do that job so you got to realize when to say no sometimes

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  • Dad

    Since you are able to help them then you must know better than them.
    I think kids rebel against their parents too !!

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    • Hello Dad,
      can you stop wasting so much money on your new wife and take me back to Spain?
      Thanks.
      -Your daughter.

      Hello Dad,
      or who ever you are, I'm kind of glad you made this account. I've been here for a while and I don't comment much anymore but your username got my attention. What made you get that as your username? For now on I'm going to tell you everything I'd like to tell my dad. Just because your username is Dad, and because I have no balls to tell my dad how I feel. So anyways, yeah.
      -Floydzie.

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      • Dad

        I can also help with that confronting (balls) issue.
        First lesson: Bring it on.

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        • I wish I could.

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  • i've known 1 person like this. I've tried to figure out why but the only thing i could come up with was she thought she was a much better person than she actually was.

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  • Daryl_Lyrad

    The reason is simple you made them feel useless cause if they always need someone to help them, to them they might think that you find them incapable of doing it themself, instead of helping them directly try teaching them the correct way so that they'll learn.

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