Is it normal to be a male friendzoner?

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I have friendzoned dozens of girls through my life. I don't know why I do so every time... maybe I am just too picky when I choose who to date. I have been in very few relationships; and I have never had casual sex.

All my friends call me "gay" and stuff like that, becuase I value the friendship of women. I just don't get why people think like that.

So, am I normal?

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Based on 61 votes (47 yes)
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Comments ( 17 )
  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    Honestly don't listen to your friends, they're just butthurt over the fact that you have options were as they don't.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I am the same(ish), I have friendzoned many girls/women.

    Most females don't fall under what I find attractive.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      It's time for you to come out of the closet.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        So, because I don't worship women, I am homosexual...? I didn't realize heterosexuality was so...Pathetic.

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          Sorry man. It was just a joke. Didn't mean to offend you.

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            Then I should probably apologize also. Sorry I jumped the gun, but there are people that would take what you said seriously, and I just find that ignorant.

            It irritates me how so many people will sit there and say men should stop pestering women, yet when someone who really doesn't care much for it, well they try to shame him for it.
            Personally, I do not like to chase. I think it is a bit degrading for people to do, because it implies that you should be the one putting the effort in to get someone, rather than them going the effort to be with you. I have a bit of a pride issue that won't let me do this.

            But I digress. I apologize. I shouldn't of jumped the gun.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    I ain't mad at cha. There's nothing wrong with being picky when it's your life and your body. No one ever died from not having enough casual sex!

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  • ObsessedWithReedus
    10 years ago

    Totally normal. Don't listen to your friends.

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  • Unicron
    10 years ago

    It's ok to be picky. There's no law saying you should take up every offer for sex as if women are some rare dying breed.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    Anyway, what you described seems normal to me.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    Asexuality is always a possibility.

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  • Riddler
    10 years ago

    People that say so are self absorbed. Not everyone will love everyone else and you cant force them. Tell them to fuck off.

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago

    You sound like a man who can separate his brain form his penis. I find that very admirable

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    Ye s it's normal scumbag Steve.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    This is more common than you'd think. I know a guy just like the OP infact. There are two possible reasons for this odd but not uncommon behaviour.

    1. closet gay

    2. afraid of sex.

    I don't think it's a huge problem though, unless it seriously effects your ability to function in the way you need to. It's your choice to get help, work on it yourself, or do nothing.

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  • Keith4544
    10 years ago

    The only way you can get your manhood back now is to have sex with them. FWB

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    There is definitely something wrong with you if you can't enjoy the company of women who want to have sex with you. By keeping all women at arm's length, you effectively preclude a physical relationship, which would either mean you are in fact gay (not that that's a problem) or you are terrified of a full on relationship with a woman that includes sex because of something in your past.
    Either way, it is something you should try to work out because you are missing out on one of the true joys of life; an intimate relationship with another human being (man or woman).

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