Is it normal to be a little violent in bed?

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Im just too abuisve, (according to my last gf). Ok,there is the occasional hard one on the butt, or a light slap on the cheek if she doesnt swallow ( but seriously, its such a damn orgasm buster when im ready to squirt and she just pulls out), but does that qualify as violent? I mean, its not as if swallowing is bad, and after intial disciplining, my gf doesnt usually hate the taste. And sometimes I do it too hard and fast, or somewhat brutal. But is it normal? and if nto what should I do? and if yes, please give me some personal experiences.

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    I've never kicked a guy in the groin but I feel like you would be a good test subject.

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  • Couman
    9 years ago

    Did the people who said this is normal actually read the details? He said he slaps women around for not swallowing.

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  • Arm0se
    9 years ago

    I'd rather it be the other way around...

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  • sweetestnightmare08
    9 years ago

    For me it is normal. I had the lucky to find someone who also gets a huge turn on when it comes to be kind of violent. We are no longer together but for other reasons because the sex was more than great. He used to slap me in my ass and sometimes in my face and I love it. It made me feel relaxed and control free.

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  • BaddIntentionAndrew
    9 years ago

    It's very normal, i use to have the same problem in a sense, you just have to be light with the punishment and see what she likes and get more involved if she likes to.

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  • Dad
    9 years ago

    I think a man in bed should be manly and women should be .. (I'm thinking of a word similar to submissive but without that harsh of a definition). Anyway, generally these days men seem to be soft and 'feminine' with their hair and body, and women tend to take more of an active role in being in charge, I find this to be a modern mistake! But each to their own.

    In my view, when actually having sex itself, men should thrust as hard as they can and be 'aggressive' in at least that specific way. I haven't met a woman who doesn't like that.

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