Is it normal to be a lesbian but...

have feelings for one guy? Well, basically, I've never been attracted to guys in my life, only girls, until just the other day, when I realized I was into one of my guy friends. We kissed, sparks flew and everything-- it was really amazing. So now I'm really confused as to what I am, seeing as I still am not attracted to any guys but him. Please help me!

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Comments ( 15 )
  • randomjelly

    Quit being so desperate to label yourself and just love who you love.

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  • Solophonic

    Most people aren't completely and wholly gay or straight, there is grey area. My whole life I've been attracted to other guys but i'm currently dating a wonderful girl who in one month makes me happier and who I am more in love with than any one in the past. Embrace your love and be yourself.

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  • Jcandy

    That's so cute! Sexuality is so fluid. I would just go with the flow. :)

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  • All straight people don't just like all the guys they meet, there's always a special someone out there and once u realise u could b slightly into guys (or rather into him, I feel like this about my bf- all the rest are d***heads) then u may find over time u could b really attracted by a guys looks or whatever. But if u really like him, who cares if ur lez- it being 'forbidden' makes it all the more special and sexy

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  • gogo45

    You like what you like. Try not to be so fixed on labels because you are not bound by labels.

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  • lolsickles

    Be who you are, love who you love. Labels are for objects, not people.

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  • Troniik

    Heres a really helpful thing: You can't be lesbian or straight everything is not black or white. Actually everyone is bisexual with a degree you can be 100% something. Im straight and I never had feelings or stuff for a boy but it still makes sense. like bisexual dosen't mean you ABSOLUTELY got to be 50% on boys 50% on girls, u can be 10/90 20/80 30/70, etc.. for a straight or gay/lesbian person it would be a 0.00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001/99.99999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999% which is the same as 100% on men or women. so don't worry about how you should label yourself everyone is bisexual at different degrees, straight gay/lesbian only means that theres (almost) no chances to have a relation with a men and then a women.

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  • georgienne

    I'm not gonna go into a speel about this, I know I want to.
    In a sentence: everyone has exceptions, we just lean very much to one side of the scale or the other.

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  • kyanviado

    You are prob bisexual

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  • robbieforgotpw

    You're a closet heterosexual come out, celebrate it, and have a parade like others do

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  • Kika173

    Do him and see

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  • Strawerry

    You are Bisexual ;)

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  • funnigyalxx

    ur probably bi xx

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  • jesseriot

    Yes, this is very normal.

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  • IMissHim

    That's hot. Your hot. Fuck me?

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