Is it normal to be a guy and not be very sexual...

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I'm a dude. I've had sex more than a few times. Everytime I get in the bed with a girl even after losing my virginity, I get way nervous to the point where its hard to get hard. I'm not gay. I do know that for a fact. When it comes to talking dirty, or even about sex in general, Im not good at it. I fucking hare being a dork but i think I am. My family tells me I'm not, but they're my family. My friends tell me I'm not. But I don't believe them. I'm so lame. I fucking fail at life. I can't find a good attractive girl anymore, I play xbox and watch dexter in my free time, I've moved out of my parents house 3 times and I'm only barely 19. I take everything to heart and when people talk shit to me over xbox live I take it personally and start shaking and kinda go ape shit. Idk what to do anymore... Life just doesn't feel good to me. I'm kind of worried I'm going to do somethinf to hurt myself one day. Nothing feels as if its getting better. Help.. please

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Worrying about what people think can destroy you. I've been there myself and life was shit. Then i just thought to myself i'm not gonna give these people power over me they don't even know me.

    I haven't looked back since and life is Awesome.

    I hope you have sorted your life out op.

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  • rin
    12 years ago

    Try not to think too much because once you start worrying it'll only escalate. Trust me life gets better.

    I love Dexter it's one of my favorite tv shows. :)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      That's what has happened I'm consumed by negative thoughts

      I can't wait until sixth season! I have all the seasons but the third and sixth which comes out in August :/
      Thank you for the comment. Kinda relieved me.

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