Is it normal to be a girl with no guy friends?

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I'm a freshman in college and as I'm trying to make friends in a new environment I find that I naturally gravitate towards making friends with girls. However, I've never had a boyfriend and it's making me feel like if I don't have guy friends that won't ever happen. I don't feel awkward talking to guys and I'm very good at making conversation and in highschool I would basically have a group of girl friends and we would all hang out with my brothers group of guy friends. So I know guys and enjoy their presence (sometimes) but I'm feeling pressure to surround myself with guys and be friends and hang out one on one and that gives me anxiety because there arent a lot of nice guys here and a LOT of them I can't have a conversation with becuase it's either one sided, not interesting or just forced. I feel fine taking their numbers, but I feel awkward asking them to hang out. So then I had to ask myself is having a bunch of platonic guy friends that I can consistly hang out with individually a realistic expectation?

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Based on 21 votes (18 yes)
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  • Doktor_Hildred_Von_Steinmann
    8 years ago

    Please re-write this.

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    • heyhihello97
      8 years ago

      Anything specific??

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      • Doktor_Hildred_Von_Steinmann
        8 years ago

        The beginning.

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        • heyhihello97
          8 years ago

          done!

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    I understand why you would feel this way, because most guys are creepy and just trying to get into your pants.

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  • kathyvictoria
    8 years ago

    Trust me it's completely normal, i'm the same way, and about the whole boyfriend thing just go to parties with your friends or talk to some guys in your classes. You don't have to be best friends with every guy you meet, just talk to them and maybe you'll meet a really great guy friend!

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