Is it normal to be a girl and not care about your virginity?

Is it normal to be a girl and not care about your virginity? I am a virgin but I don't care who I lose it to. I rather just lose it now. I don't think it's some kind of special thing that has to be done properly at the right time and place.

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Based on 86 votes (57 yes)
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Comments ( 15 )
  • equanimity

    You're normal for not acting like it's the most precious thing you have to give up, but you should want to have it be a good experience.

    I'm not saying you have to be in love or in a relationship, but I think that you should make sure that it's with someone who will treat you with kindness, dignity, and respect. It's how you are treated afterwards that sometimes has more of an impact on you than the moment itself.

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    • DropThatGem

      Totally agree

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  • Interesting. I honestly believe that a lot of high school girls have this mentality, not sure about girls beyond high school. I think your normal but I caution you to think about what your saying. You don't want to do something you'll regret.

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  • shootingstar

    I'm a guy, but I would say it's normal to feel this way if you don't care nearly as much as those around you. I would warn against wanting to 'get it over with.' That's an over-correction. Try to remember how much you've changed over the years and imagine how much you will change in the future, and try not to do anything you'll regret by the time you do meet someone you really adore.

    I'm guessing we share a similar culture of Judeo-Christian morality. That makes things a bit weird for people who don't fully sign on with it. They'll get over it :]

    BTW, You *should* still be mindful of pregnancy, STDs, and to a reasonable degree, your reputation.

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  • Jweezee

    What about jesus? Ha kidding go fuck

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  • JuliusE

    You're fucking stupid and you'll regret this attitude when you're older. Some self-esteem you've got there. *yawn* just another depressed, worthless, slut who will sell herself short (or maybe not bc by the sounds of it you may be judging correctly). Welcome to the masses of women in the modern world.

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    • chewy

      You need to chill out nothing wrong with free sex and free spirit dont be mad because someone else thinks differently than you

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  • istrawberry

    It really depends on the girl. Nothing wrong with that.

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  • chadams

    Bullshit! Virginity is not some "precious gift". This is not the 1800's. You are not ruined if you are not "pure" until marriage. Now days that line of crap is use by people who push abstinence to make people feel guilty for their natural sexual feelings. Be careful and protect yourself from and STD's.

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  • Ezroni

    Lmao just LMAO @ waiting til later to have sex and being terrible at it then being tossed in an Uber because you don't know how to bump n grind

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  • 8b47

    There are no virgins over 12 years old

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  • That is perfectly fine. I get help you with this if you would like.

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  • pogos

    You sound like a whore.

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    • chewy

      And thats a bad thing?

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  • chewy

    Sex is sex you might wanna be protected if you dont want to get a nasty desiase

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