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Well, I'm a 20 yr old female and I seem to have an out of control libido. I can't stop wanting to have sex with my fiance and when I can't have it, I masturbate. Then, recently, I started watching porn. This would be like lesbian porn, not because I was attracted to females, but because I wanted the things done to them done to me. Is it normal?
Of course, it's normal to be a female who watches porn. It is also normal to want a lot of sex and masturbate when you can't have it.
What I find weird is the exlanation of your porn choice - if it is because you want the things done to a porn actress done to you why the person who is doing that to the woman must be a woman as it is in lesbian porn? I mean - why don't you want to watch the things when they are done by a man to a woman?
A lot of man/woman porn is aimed at men, so the focus is on what the woman can do for the man. The man doing anything for the woman is often an afterthought, I can totally understand seeking porn aimed at women.
I wouldn't say that lesbian porn is aimed at women as the primary consumers of lesbian porn are still straight men. That is why it is made with the intention to satisfy the sexual needs and preferences of straight men and the acts depicted in lesbian porn are supposed to arouse them (the men). Sure, many women like cunnilingus, manual stimulation, sensual play etc. in real life but I still don´t understand why they prefer to watch these activities between two women and not between a woman and a man. Nowadays, there is quite a lot of straight porn on the Internet which shows the same activities and porn sites usually offer the porn movies under the categories aimed at these sexual activities. If the woman who watches lesbian porn is straight why does she prefer the same activities done by a woman and not by a man? It is not clear to me.
Because the focus is still on the man. The porn ends when the man comes. Sure, there's man/woman porn out there that's got more focus on the woman, but it's just that teensy bit more difficult to find + lesbian porn doesn't have 'morally degrading' facial cumshots or anything like that.
Of course, I'm just speculating. I prefer man/man porn myself.
I see your point now.
It also makes sense to me that some women prefer lesbian porn because it doesn't have 'morally degrading' aspects such as facial cumshots etc. I definitey think this can play a role in their porn choices. I also have the impression which is related to that - specifically, that some women prefer lesbian porn because it is more sensual and often closer to cuddling or erotic caressing than to harcore sex.
Personally, I prefer other porn genres and don't watch lesbian porn at all. I wonder why some women who are straight prefer porn where there is no object of their proclaimed sexual interest - i.e. no guy.
I am glad you offered some possible explanations even if you don't prefer lesbian porn. To be honest, no women who prefers it wasn't able to explain her preferences in a way that would make sense (such as there are no degrading aspect in lesbian porn etc.) when I asked...
What you said made sense and quentari. Honestly, I couldn't even explain being straight and being turned on by lesbian porn. At first, I watched man/woman porn and got aroused a bit then when I discovered the sensuality and gentle nature of women in the porn, I came fountains. My fiance is a gentle man and he was my first so expect sex to be considerate and loving like it is between us. Maybe that is my reason.
It's my first day back on this site after 2.5 weeks off and I'm immediately reminded why I left - I see the same stuff here every day.
This must be one of the most-asked questions ever.
If (almost) everyone is asking it, surely it MUST be normal.
Bad day sir? Actually, I just made an account yesterday, so I don't know what's "most posted". Please, if you have had a rotten day, do not take out your frustration on random strangers whom you do not know well enough to judge but could be potential friends had you approach them differently. I will put this behind me, because if you are in fact a decent person, this is not your default personality.
OMG thanks for posting this! i do the same and I thought it wasn't normal and a bit gay, but I guess we watch lesbian porn because its easier to get aroused by it, for some reason