Is it normal to be a cute bi girl but not have lesbians notice you?

My lesbian friends tell me how "comfortable" they are around me and i've never gotten anything but platonic attention. I'm pretty darn cute if i say so myself. I've also got a feminine figure and I think I'm pretty fun to be around. Is not having ever even been looked at that way normal?

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Based on 66 votes (54 yes)
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  • harrypotters

    Well if you are only talking about your friends than yeah it is normal you are not getting hit on. If you want to get hit on be women go to a gay bar ect some place were it will be obvious to everyone, that you are interested and avaliable.

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  • TyLee

    You are lucky wreckd lol I am in the same situation as the story except that I don't have any lesbian friends.

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  • wreckd

    That sucks for you. I have been hit on by every lesbian girl I know. Maybe it's the "cute" thing. Do you think maybe you look too innocent?

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    • ArticEllie

      I think that might be it. I just can't help that i'm adorable. I have big blue eyes and a button nose. Can't really make that sexy.

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      • wreckd

        Big blue eyes and a button nose! :) That deff is sexy. That can't be it.

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      • newkid

        Sounds sexy all hell to me. How old are you? Maybe they think you're a bit young?

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  • robbieforgotpw

    why do you want the lesbos to check you out?

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    Maybe they are looking for the butch type. I have noticed a lot of the very popular gay chicks tend to be the boyish manly ones. I have had a lot of gay friend both boys and girls. I have known bi girls like you that seem to be rejected even if they are very pretty that would turn a guys head but not lez chicks.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Maybe, you aren't their type? If you want to start a relationship Then, try to send some signals. Is there an age difference? Your cute looks may make you appear younger than you really are.

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  • They dont detect the gaydar with u

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89

    There is such thing as lipstick lesbians! If you look straight lesbians tend not to go for you, maybe you should approach them? And I don't mean "grabbing" in the gypsy as that just seems terrifying

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  • That is because most lesbians prefer women that resemble men. That is, the psychological lesbians, not the hormonal ones (who themselves look like men).

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    • wreckd

      Thanks but I don't resemble a man. :)

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