Is it normal to be a cougar?

Okay, I'm just going to be honest... I've gotten a lot of comments that I'm a MILF. I'm not actually a mom yet, though, but I am 33. I like going to cougar clubs and dressing up in sexy outfits and turning on young men (18-22, usually?)

I like feeling kind of powerful to them, and they like feeling overpowered. They kind of act like I'm their Mom or something, except with more sex, lol.

How much do most boys like cougars? We're you attracted to your teachers/friends moms?

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Based on 320 votes (270 yes)
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Comments ( 51 )
  • Anime7

    Honestly I like the idea and I find some older women to be attractive. They're very direct and clear on what they want. I find that assertiveness to be pretty sexy personally and I wouldn't mind going out with an older woman.

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    • BLAh81

      Totally agreed!

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  • dirtybirdy

    Hmmm...its funny that you're 33, 28, 23 and 21... just sayin.

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    • shuggy-chan

      What's age anyway, just a number that u make up to describe the fake u? I mean right

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      • dirtybirdy

        Perhaps. I just don't see the point in fabricating these lies. Silliness.

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        • shuggy-chan

          Whatever ur a liar too, admit it. Ur not really that dirty, I watched u in tjat bird bath the other day. H,mmmmmmm shake those feathers dry

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  • dirtybirdy

    That's not quite cougar age but rock on with your bad self.

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  • KRFTW

    I don't know if it's normal but there's definitely nothing wrong with being a cougar.
    I find older ladies and young men compliment each other very well.

    Personally I like cougars for the following reasons:
    -They have experience in relationships and don't need their best friend's opinion on how to live their life. Less Drama
    -Sexual Experience, open to new stuff
    -Better conversationalists, more interesting, confident
    -You don't have to be a sugar daddy and pay for every date.
    -they know exactly who they are and what they want.

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  • ∞Rascal∞

    Yes yes and yes.... as long as you have a fine ass body, fall into the age bracket of 18 - 36 (37 - 50 for a slam bam thank you mam) I'll be attracted...

    P.S I never let any woman dominate me regardless of her age. So you could try it on but you'd get a spanking from me!!

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    • leelah4399

      Ooh? Is that a challenge?

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      • Elliemental

        I think the real challenge is working out how your managing to get younger then older, 3weeks ago you were 28, then a week later you were only 21 n now your 33? What's your trick?

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      • ∞Rascal∞

        Yeah it is a challenge, it would be a reality if we didn't have a couple of oceans and continents separating us :)

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  • shuggy-chan

    Well as someone 24 I can say that I can appreciate the beauty of anyone older or younger. Women or birdy =)

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    • dirtybirdy

      :p

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      • shuggy-chan

        coo cooo caw caw hot hot mama

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Why is it that this post is 80+% normal but older men who like young girls 18-20 get called pedos? Why oh why did I have to live in the first era where something considered normal and natural for eons has been turned upside down?

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    • GoraIntoDesiGals

      The idiot who thumbed me down sort of proves my point.

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  • Atomsk1337

    in your 30s?
    You have no idea how awesome you are for going out and (hopefully) banging these younger dudes.
    You're great, keep doing what you're doing. Guys love this shit.

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  • disthing

    I am attracted to girls predominantly my age. I have been attracted to older women 30+ before, but they are in the minority. In those cases, it has nothing to do with submission - imagining them in a dominant or nurturing position as a mother or a teacher. That's not my thing.

    I also find women who presume they can turn me on or attract me easily a turn-off. Oh and those who appear to want me only for sex don't do it for me either.

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  • Shackleford96

    Hi there >8}

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    • braintrip

      Hey there >;#3

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    • leelah4399

      Haha hey there :) <3

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  • handsignals

    I love you, your awesome!

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    • leelah4399

      Haha love you too <3

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  • MissyNeko

    It's normal to fuck whoever you want as long as they are legal and consentant.

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  • Cellbiologyphiliac

    I guess that it's normal? I am a 25 year old woman who is in a romantic relationship with a 56 year old man, and we even have a child with each other. Personally, I don't see what's the big difference (even though there may be a very big difference that I don't know about) between an older man and younger woman being romantically involved or a younger man dating an older woman. As long as both partners are of legal consensual age then...who gives a crap right?

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  • ran2wil69

    when I was 18,, I was hitting a 30 year old woman!! that was good to go!! now I am older and I like hitting younger girls.. so wtf!!

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  • Hottigene

    Well im older than you and I would Love to see your sexy outfits sweety but when I was young I was attracted to some older woman for sure so I dont see nothing wrong with it If It makes you Feel Sexy thats Great Love

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  • Audacia

    Original posters sounds hot for sure.

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  • Meh.

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  • Avant-Garde

    You bet it is!

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  • Dot123

    That's sexy. But cougars for me are just a one time deal. Fuck and leave.

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    • Goomats

      Why would you not have an on-going relationship with an older woman? Would you have an on-going relationship with a younger woman? Older women can be smart, fun, interesting and be over-all good girlfriends.

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      • Dot123

        Personally I would rather have someone of my age or maybe 2-3 years older. Not someone like 8-30+

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  • I like people who I think are hot, regardless of age. Infact I tend not to ask or even think about their age.

    Lol, I wouldn't say I see any woman as powerful, and nor have I felt overpowered by one. I most certainly do not act as though they are my mom, the (like two) older women I've been with were more or less the polar opposite of a mother figure. Just people to fuck is what women are to me, and I really don't mean that in a negative way. I mean what would I be doing if I wasn't having sex with you? Ignoring you, just like I ignore everyone who isn't giving me what I want.

    And you do sound easy to get into bed and you aren't too old yet, so you're cool I suppose.

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    • shuggy-chan

      the smell from her vag was overpowering

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      • :S......:0......:xxxxxx

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  • Love 'em.
    They move to sex quickly.
    And they're usually married and lonely.

    The Japanese ones that have just arrived in London are brilliant. Never had a 'western' cock before, and they just love it.

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  • TT22

    yes i love cougars

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  • gummy_jr

    ;D

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  • mixwell

    At 30 i'd hace to get with somone 40 or older for cougar status but I'd love to be with an older chick who isn't full of drama.

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    • jc25

      When you're 60 will the cougars be in their 80s?

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  • hitchman

    Sik kunt

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    I find it creepy your imagining having sex with children. Though the overpowered thing and being over powered is normal. They do this a lot in S&M.

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    • Kid_Kegan

      She's not imagining sex with a child. She's just having sex with some who has spent about 3500 less days alive than she has. There's nothing weird about this at all to me. Sexual urges that you can't control don't discriminate based on age, so why should we attempt to hinder them ourselves?

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      • RomeoDeMontague

        Are you saying in that case that you believe in paedophilia? No that is never normal I am sorry to say. So try and rationalize it all you want but its not. However the mom and son thing is creepy. For the fact you are imagining having sex with your own child. So its incest and its a sexual desire to have sex with a child you know you can take advantage of. As for the other matter age does matter. You can look at love and sex in a logical manner. None of which can explain an adult having sex with a 6 year old. However the want to be on top is actually a desire in most relationships so not really that abnormal. Often a relationship will have a more dominating and more submissive character.

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        • GoraIntoDesiGals

          Nearly all your posts revolve around paedophilia. You know the saying. The loudest crusaders against something are often secretly indulging in what they crusade against.... IMO you might be a closet paedophile fighting his urge.

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          • RomeoDeMontague

            What is IMO?

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          • RomeoDeMontague

            No.... I just see it a lot and its beginning to piss me off. Since I had friends I grew up with who got perverted BF/GF in their 30s at 14. I also just pissed off with the teenage generation as a whole...

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  • watermelonninja

    If you're 33 and you climb in bed with a 22 year old , you got some issues. Be careful because if you die w/out repenting you will pay for it!

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    • RomeoDeMontague

      My parents are 10 years apart? That means issues?

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