Is it normal to be a black skinny slim twink at 28 years old?

I'm a 28 year old black skinny slim twink. I'm 5'8" and 125LBs. My body looks like an untrained bodybuilder with very visible and well developed muscles. I'm not skinny-fat at all, and my body fat is currently around 10-12%. I like to penetrate men in their ass, and not a lot of men want to be penetrated by me because I look like I'm 18 or younger. I have some facial hair, and hair on my balls, and hair above my penis, and hair all around my ass. What would I need to do as a 28 year old black skinny slim young twink to get more men to allow me to penetrate them in their ass roughly, vigorously, and deeply?