Is it normal to be a 19 year old virgin

Is it normal no not feel any urge to want to have sex? I mean don't get me wrong I have had quite a few girl friends, but I never actually kissed or did anything with another girl. I haven't even had a girl do anything with me, the most I've done is cuttled with her. Is that wierd?

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Based on 326 votes (249 yes)
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  • nAt2017

    Of course it's normal. Don't look to the media for standards, you'll end up in a very bad place.

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  • deejayftw

    Of course not, it's a good thing. If you are going to have sex make it an epic thing with someone you're in love with, to not feel the urge (at the moment) is completely normal. Those who have sex constantly with random people are disgusting and weak people who are completely dominated by nature.

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  • Cremi

    You might just be asexual

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  • millecent

    Wait till you are really in love, because sex is all in the mind. The more you love the person the better it is

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  • You could be asexual if you feel no sexual urges whatsoever.

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  • chaosdragoon1

    I didn't even have a girlfriend until I was 19 almost 20. I had never even held hands or kissed a girl before. Lol

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    • RubyCane

      Judging from your Username (chaosdragoon), I ain't surprised... LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO

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      • dude_Jones

        Don't let society make you feel bad for not getting laid. If masturbation is a chore and soft porn looks mundane, you might be asexual. You'll be happiest with plutonic female friends.

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        • Sarisa

          Wow, I think that'd be pretty hard to find a female friend from Pluto.

          LOL I think you mean platonic. XD

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  • blessedElizabeth

    STAY A VIRGIN AT ALL COSTS!!! that's the best thing IN THE WORLD!!! wait for your husband/girlfriend!!!! If at all possible!!

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  • agentchaos

    consider yourself lucky

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  • pink_05

    No stay the same it will be better

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  • brassanubis

    lmao you silly thing you! That's not anything unusuall at all! Your probably just fussy and there's nothing wrong with that at all :) your sure to find the right one eventually :3

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  • NoOneIsNormalo_0

    Dude, you don't exactly have to have sex before you get married and ACTUALLY TURN 20 for f sake!!!! Everyone thinks that you need to lose your virginity at a young age. But, anyone who thinks that is a slut. That's just fuckin slutty. I plan to never lose mine.

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  • ajayy_21

    God I'm so tired of these "is it normal to be a virgin at x years old" blah blah blah. I'm a 21 year old virgin and honestly it's not that big of a deal. I don't think age has a single thing to do with virginity. It's something you do when YOU are ready and on YOUR terms. I mean, I can see if it's within reason. Like if you were a 45 year old asking this question, then I'd be a little concerned but you're still young so it's ok.

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  • icy

    Yeah I would say it is . Ian 19 and haven't had sex or a mate

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  • wreckd

    Save yourself. :)

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  • alv1592

    that's actually a good thing. save it for your future wife.

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  • KrunkFu

    whats with all these people that say wait until marriage? sex is a GREAT bonding experience with you and your partner.. plus it feels as good as and is fun as fuck. is it NORMAL? that depends, if you are a fun outgoing person that enjoys parties and the outdoors, then no. If you stay inside playing world of warcraft all day, then yes.

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  • michaels4p5

    the most they do to me is tease me

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Totally fine.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    NORMAL!

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  • chaosdragoon1

    @rubycane

    Nice burn. But I'm not ashamed of my geekiness. However, everyone else was. That's not my fault. Lol

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    • lol looooove it u funny hehe

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  • romeo_

    Sorry, I voted it`s not.
    But I think it is.

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  • lonesoul

    Look good and u will get there. But dont go for 1night stands. U will wake up feeling like a desperate manwhore.

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  • SuperSmokey

    Get giddy with a prostitute if you need to

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    • michaels4p5

      thats possible

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  • the_nick30

    Man Up.

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