Is it normal to be a 21 year old virgin? (no negative comments pleas)

Perfectly normal
Classy
Respectable
Elegant
Pure
And everything else that's good lol

It's better to save yourself than waste it on some random dude, good for you! Definitly normal.

Omg totally 21 isn't that that old and honey ur time will come. Just make sure it's with the right person you don't want ur fist time to be with someone you don't care about!

My bf was a virgin til about a year ago. He will be 25 this year. It's completely normal.

Normal and respectable.

Oops sorry, didn't read the part saying you were a dude :P (pretend it says girl)

So go find a nice girl that likes you and that's clean and have some fun. Its probably not gonna be great, most people's first times aren't very good, but it gets way better as you practice and learn what's what.

It's not really normal I don't think. I lost my virginity when I was like 15. You are in your sexual prime right now, and you only live ONCE. You are only young in the skin you're in ONCE. Don't waste it. You can waste your time not having sex when you're old and can't get it up. But I guarentee you, at some point in your life you're gonna look back and say "man, I should have had more sex-"

You're not normal, you're smarter than most men :)

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Is it normal? What's normal? There's certainly nothing wrong with it. Relax, enjoy life and let whatever happens, happen. You don't get to choose when you'll lose your virginity, it's a blend of fate giving the opportunity and yourself making the choice.

good for you. casual meaningless sex is totally overrated, man. i wish i would have waited too.

Good job!!

I think it's great take your time she's out there and you'll find her!

Nothing against you or other male virgins but it's not normal. It goes against the biology of the male. All that waiting for the right girl etc bla bla is just a story to make you or other virgins feel better about the situation. It's like oh I can't get laid or I am too scared or I have low confidence, but it's ok because all girls are bitches or I'm waiting for the right one.

I think you should hire an escort and get the first one out the way, then sex won't be on such a pedastill.

Sex is not such a big important thing, as much as you tell your self it is. Just get out there and start humping.

Get a hooker, she will do all the work

Oopppps!!!! I meant appplaude you!!!!!

So normal!!! Life is not all about sex!! One day u will find the one n it will feel right!! I applause you!!!!!!!!!!

I myself am 21 years old and a virgin, I recently turned 21 and I still don't think its a bad thing the vast majority of the time.

Honestly from what I've seen out of women a lot of them are really fucking huge bitches and I'm not gay so I just have no interest in sex with anyone.

I'm waiting on that one girl to come along who will change my mind about women and that I'll care about. Until then I'm perfectly happy being a virgin, there are actually quite a few up sides to being a virgin. LOL

I think your normal bro the same as I think I'm normal don't let others pressure you into having sex when it isn't what you want. =) I don't and honestly women respect me for it because they can obviously see i'm a good enough looking fellow that I could get it if I wanted it I just choose to wait on that one special girl rather than screwing anything that comes along.

I completly agree with you. Stay a virgin until you find the girl you truly love deep inside. You will regret it if you go with some random. Stay strong, you will get there soon.

Sadly it not that common anymore! It is kindda a double standard when it comes to this subject. It is much more acceptable by todays society for a girl to be a virgin longer than men! The question of is it normal depends on what you think normal is. In some societies it is perfectly normal in other not so much. I think it depends on the person and what they want. The fact that you think about sex alot is simply because you are a young male and you are approching your sexual Peak. I do not recomend just jumpin the first girl that will give it up because thats a sure fire way to get an std. Once you find the right person it will happen.

P.S.I love my fleshlight, and im not a virgin.

There's nothing abnormal about it, but if you're not talking to girls or dating now, don't think that one's just going to fall into your lap if you just continue doing the exact same things.

i'm a 21 year old and a virgin. it sometimes bothers me but i'm waiting for the right person who i hope will come at some point :).

i wouldn't worry. i think you'd be surprised how many people our age are.

I'm 21, a guy and am still a virgin and I hope if all goes well will get married a virgin. But that aint to say that I can't get some, cuz I know if I really wanted to, I could get some (without paying) in many different places.

good for you

My boyfriend was 21 when he lost his virginity. I'm very happy to have a man who waited for someone they really cared about rather than some guy who had just gotten done whoring himself out for years before he met me. Really I have respect for anyone who makes the decision to wait a bit later than average despite social criticism. Besides sex isn't as great as everyone says it is anyway.

i think it's ok.. I mean of course u might feel like "i'm a guy and i'm still a virgin" not b/c u think it, but b/c others make u think it.. I believe that the fact that u want to do it with the right girl, that shows us that not all guys r assholes after all.. Just chill, and the girl will come.. don't seek it and don't overthink it,cz thatz when u wait and it never comes! juuuust chill ;p

That's great! There's to many sluts in the world, and I think you're doing the right thing. Wait for the right girl or guy , depending on what gender you are. Don't listen to your retarted friends. You're smarter then anyone there for going at your own pace

You're better than normal. Don't listen to anyone else. Wait for her.

Im a guy

Ur awesome

It's all good, just focus on other things in life and soon the right girl will come, I know how you feel man

I think your smart !! :)

Grow a pair! you will not regret it. You are not a woman. Sex and love are different things. You either want cock, or need to grow one. Strap one on if needs be. But if your not even trying, then there's a fundamental problem...