Is it normal to be a 30 year old female virgin?

shame on all the idiots who watch too much tv and care about what living "life" is. who are you to say what is normal about choosing when to have sex. quit being superficial, and come down to earth.

Give me you're number and I'll do it. Problem solved.

It's ok. you just haven't met someone worth your time...or virginity. There is too much pressure when it comes to sex. It will happen when you're ready and it feels right. You are totally ok!

have sex when you want to, when you want to, and when you are ready. Don't let ANYONE dictate when you should or make you feel like you should not be a virgin. When you feel comfortable with yourself, then do it.

Find the rite guy, don't lose your virginity to some idiot that won't call you the next day or never again.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with keeping your virginity for as long as you want. Nothing wrong with it at all. The only problem I see is keeping it because of fear.

If fear is what's stopping you, then maybe a bit of counseling would do you could. Other than that, I say power to the virgins.

You should be proud of yourself and you have done the right thing to many people in the west have lost old values and its wonderful that people like you are still sticking to them YOU ARE NORMAL AND WONDERFUL PERSON. Do not post here unless you want ot be seen as a role model as I think you are to all the young promiscous people in the west

Some women save themselves for marriage and there's nothing wrong with that but I want to meet a virgin and I always meet the repeat offenders so virgin ladies I want to get to know you.

If your not fat or unattractive it's almost impossible to have never dated by the age of 30.
There is surely some underlying problem somewhere. You should seek a little counseling just to make sure.Never having sex and never dating are two different things.Dating is a nice thing. Its part of growing and getting to know yourself and the opposite sex. I suspect you have deep subconcious fears you to need to deal with.

So I fell for a girl that was 30 and from what I understand as of yet a virgin but I loved her all the same- any dude that gives a shit about that kind of thing is not going to be the one that was worth the wait. She's a bit secretive and unfortunately I think it was an unnecessary source of shame for her- it never should've been and she went to great lengths to cover it up and I had gone into this thinking the complete opposite- you fall for an individual based on who they are the instant you set eyes and not for their prior sexual history or lack there of, if sex is your sole criteria the chances of it cultivating into a real and meaningful bond is rare. And my chick is sexy and she has a gorgeous body, socially brilliant and strong willed. She's half Japanese and although a bit manipulative I have utmost respect for this chick and I'm not 100% sure about anything but regardless of her past she is not a prude and tons of guys want her, but i'm a bit younger and failed to understand that depth of this complex woman and as a result of rash behavior I lost her and I think she could have been the one. The saddest part being that I never got to really find out but i'm gonna miss that one and she was the first girl I really cared about and she taught me how to grow up and accept loss. I wanted to share this with you because the premise of sex/virginity had nothing to do with this fantastic but tragic story, all that matters is the love you potentially have to offer and accepting the person you choose completely. She accepted me despite my many flaws and anger, but I was to childish to extend the same decency and today i'm the one suffering. So don't trip, it'll happen as it always does.

Its normal for people to decide not to have sex, when the time comes it will happen and if it doesnt it just wasnt ment to be.

Just chat a guy up. It will happen.

im 20 (im a guy ) and ive never dated or had sex, idk where i stand on the sex b4 marriage thing, but i guess u can try to have sex or what ever, or you stop caring and let it go(personally this is what im doing), just think if it is really that big of a deal? and if so then do something about it and if u are as u described there isnt much difficulty in finding someone, talk to ur friends one of the guys that may be around u the most or is a little shy may secretly like u (theirs always a chance), and there are plenty of people on this site that are 30,40 an even 50 in the same if not similar situations, so your not alone, dont be scared it holds u back(i may not have expoierience but i have many friends that do so my info may help, good luck)

I'm in the same boat, but ten years younger. Don't give up on your man and believe that there is one out there for you! It will happen all in God's timing!

let's change it

You said you never dated, but you've had perfectly normal conversations with men. You sound like a nice girl, and guys out there probably really like you but you just have no idea.

I don' think you should fuss too much about it. You're a nice person, so as long as you go out there and socialise loads and meet new people, eventually you'll find the right man and things will be alright then.

You have absolutely nothing to worry about.

am a 33 year old male virgin , i am 6ft man and i wish i do it , there is alway porn movie and pics on my computer , but am not social, i never have a girlfriend when some of my mate have already finished having children , all the girl i toasted never agree and am thinking of starting from prostitute

Hi there. I don't know how did your life go, but I googled your question cause I am in same position. In 6 days I will turn 30 and I am a virgin. And asking myself where did my life go. I don't know if I can say this is normal or not but I am guessing since the two of us google it, it's not. I mean I am pretty good looking, and interesting, and funny, and I know couple of guys like me at the moment. But I see it as so superficial. How can they be so hot for me after 2 hours of chatting with me, or even less. They don't want to know me. My problem is that I fall for my friends, and no body wants to be friends before, they just want to f***. So I fall for my friends. With one I was inlove for 7 years. The other one for 3 years and going on. But they where both in relationships. And I create this intimacy and trust with them. And today I consider them one off the best people I had ever meet. But I back down cause they are with some one. And I don't think how badly I want someone should be based on backstabbing someone else. And I don't know how to change this. So in 6 days I am joining your club. Hope you're life went in the direction you wanted.

30 year old virgin? I think it's time to join Friends with Benefits UK.

I'm in the same boat you are, I'm 28 and a virgin. I've been in a few relationships and have gotten close, but always stop myself. For me, I want to be sure I'm in a committed relationship and in love before I sex. Not necessarily married, but in love.
Good luck to you on your journey

So you're saying guys have turn down sex or even just a date with you?

If you really wanted to have it wouldn't be hard for you to get it. I guess you just never felt like it that bad?

wait and marry mr right because he will truly appeeciate you like this

Post a picture please, to complete the assessment. Maybe you'll get lucky

Come on baby, I'll hit it.

All you need to do is to say it, give us a clue. WE WILL DO IT!!

you probably just didn't meet the right guy yet.
i met a guy and i don't know whether he's 'the one'. well, he's my boyfriend so he isn't that bad. but TBH i just wanted to fuck.

I feel the same way as u but im 26 and male. Iv dated once but nothing really happened as i kept on thinking negative and told the girl i was rubbish. I think u just need to be positive and confident. Can a friend not set u up with a mutual friend maybe ? And on the virgin part uv waited this long so keep it for the rt person that has genuine feelings for you. maybe we could help each other out x