Is it normal to be a 30 y.o virgin and still virgin ?

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I am a 30 y.o guy lives in cairo,egypt, i am just fed up with being virgin, i want to get laid so bad but i cant ,i am a muslim and i cant have sex unless i am married , but i have no time to find the right girl or any social life, i am an architect and barely find the time to rest , i feel its so hard to settle and make a family, i wish i could express my feelings towards a woman, i will feel better !! !!

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Based on 9 votes (5 yes)
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  • Mr-Myrtos
    10 years ago

    I was several times in some Islamic countries. I live in the South of Europe than in 2 to 3 hours I'm in 10 different Islamic countries for next to nothing.
    I understood that problem in some men I talked to when travelling. Is a religions matter you can't really complain about as long as you fallow it. With your profession you can get a job in a more open minded country and be not as castrated as you are by your religion.
    Talking with some friends in Beirut, city I love a lot, I also took notice that a lot of men do have sex with each other immediately when they turn sexual active and until they get married. After they get married they considered themselves straight, they always did but they keep having sex with boys or men not married till they get married to.
    For my mentality this is very confusing and I'm sure its physiological disturbing.
    I don't know about you. You put your post in a way that I believe you really sick tenderness and love from a women. To give and get.
    Look. Our God is the same and I believe He wants everyone to be happy. You are a hard working guy with a course and responsible. Don't waste your best years coz of religious prejudice. Get out and live life. I know its possible to find open minded girls in Arabian/Islamic countries.
    I'm sure it must be the most upsetting thing to get to your 30th and have spend since you were a boy masturbating yourself around the corners or in front of the computer thinking about something so normal as sex. A guy in his 30th without a partner to make sex is like a bomb ready to explode. By the way you write this post you seem like a nice person, a human being. Start living life and use your body the way you want and need. That's why God gave you that body.
    I'm sure you also need to talk a lot about it and you find difficult otherwise you wouldn't be here. Get someone to chat about it.

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    • [email protected]
      10 years ago

      thank you for your comment ,and thx a lot for your advice :) i will try to find a new place to start over, might things get better :)

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  • anti-hero
    10 years ago

    Sucks to be you. Maybe drop the Muslim B.S. and go get laid.

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    • [email protected]
      10 years ago

      drop my faith to get laid?? :) non-sense
      anyway thx for the advice :)

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      • anti-hero
        10 years ago

        If your faith is that important. Then you should wait.

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  • Agirlsbestfriend.
    10 years ago

    It's normal for a virgin to be a virgin. I think most virgins are virgins, so you're in the majority.

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  • [email protected]
    10 years ago

    i never touched a boy nor a woman, stop being stupid !!

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    I know a lot of gay Muslims so maybe you just need to start or continue sucking cocks! Your women are ugly anyway so why not be a queer.

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    • [email protected]
      10 years ago

      who told you our women is ugly?? you cant imagine how lovely they are and how clean and pretty they are ,Google it :)

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      • peterr
        10 years ago

        I noticed you didn't rule out sucking cocks there gay boy!

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        • [email protected]
          10 years ago

          I have never touched a boy nor a girl ever!! stop being stupid !

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          • peterr
            10 years ago

            But I bet you jerk yourself off a lot because no one will bother with you, you pathetic bastard and by the way your women are ugly.

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  • Canttel!
    10 years ago

    This is normal! Evry one is virgin so dont sweat it! That people thT want to lose it so bad are the ones that get aids and all this diseas! Stay strong!

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