Is it normal to be 21 and never in a serious relationship?

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I'm 21 years old. I've never been in a real relationship (dated people here and there, also never had sex with anyone). In some ways, I'm happy that I'm not in a serious relationship right now because I want very specific things in the next few years. But at the same time, I feel like everyone around me is so much more advanced dating wise. People tell me that I'm likable and pretty and not to worry about it. I've always had a lot of friends. But I just want some reassurance that I'm not a completely unlovable being.

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  • mirs
    7 years ago

    I'm 21 and have never even had a relationship yet. I have a close guy friend but that's it. I'm waiting for the right one and time and know my schooling is more important.

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  • BlackDragon0012
    7 years ago

    Perfectly normal, you have plenty of time to worry about dating. Focus on what you want and things will fall into place when they are meant to be.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    You are only 21.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Yes, I think you're normal. Try not to judge yourself harshly.

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