Is it normal to be 26 and like a 15 yo?
Shes keeps hitting on me alot but scared to do anything about it lol
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HashTagLIFE
Uh yeah sure go mess with the CHILD. Registered sex offender will look great on your resume!.....idiot.
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slutzombie
I know when I was that age, I was hit on by many guys in their 20s and 30s, even after they found out my age.
Doesn't make it normal. She may appear mature for her age, but trust me, she isn't, and this is against the law.Comment Hidden ( show ) -
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RoseIsabella
She's a child!
Even if you feel young inside, legally you are an adult and almost ten years her senior. Sex offenders don't get treated well in prison. Don't be a stupid creep, leave her alone!
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RoseIsabella
Correction: You are more than ten years older than her!
Also, did you ever stop to think that she might not be hitting on you. Maybe she flirts with everyone and it doesn't mean a thing because after all she is a child!
I'm a twice divorced 43 year old woman and if I responded to every teenage boy and young college guy who hit on me I would be one hell of a selfish, lecherous, old hag. Part of being a mature human being is having respect for the innocence youth! If you want to have healthy self esteem then live your life in an esteem-able manner.
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LizardSkin
I get tired of saying this, and I imagine you already know it unless you're an idiot, but pedophilia describes those attracted to prepubescent children.
What you're thinking of is ephebophilia. Yes I know, not quite as catchy to shout out loud; however the fact remains.
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15 is legal in my country, so as i've said before it isn't something that i frown that much upon.
But i still can't help but have a great distaste for men close to their THIRTIES that is attracted to young teens.
Surely, they probably look damn hot but they aren't MATURE.
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RoseIsabella
Wow! I'd never even kissed a boy when I was 15 years old. A 15 year old and an 18 year old is one thing but a 26 year old with a big crush on a 15 year old is just plain creepy. In my humble opinion only losers get infatuated with children.
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(s)aint
Myself i could concider sleeping with a fifteen year old, for an ONS that is. But as i said: I see the difference between wishing to have sex with young teens and having a CRUSH on them.
I'm 22 and i could never even think of getting involved in a romantic way with anyone younger than like ... 18 or something.
But i guess things like this depends on where you are from and what the standards are there.
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RoseIsabella
Having a one night stand with a young impressionable person of 15 years old would be taking advantage of his or her youth and innocence. What if that young person wanted more, like a serious committed relationship or that person felt hurt or used? I wouldn't want something like that on my conscience.
For the sake of my peace of mind if I see a vulnerable young man whether that be because of his age or emotional state and he wants intimacy from me I tell myself he's off limits. I try to treat others the way I would want to be treated. I sleep better at night and have more serenity this way.
I guess there are different social, moral and cultural standards as well since you are from Sweden which I don't know much about and I'm originally from the Southern region of the United States. I live in Las Vegas, Nevada now and don't much care for the culture of this city. At least there's good shopping here I suppose.
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[Old Memory]
Well hello good sir. I might be wrong but from what I've heard it's still illegal for someone above 18 to be with a 15 year old in Sweden.
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Avant-Garde
No. Do you want to go to jail? Do you want to be put on the sex offenders list and have your life ruined? (I am assuming that you are in a country where 15 isn't the legal age). Tell her to go away or go away yourself. Tell someone that you trust so they can be a form of witness.
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gibbo98
mate if you are really that desperate then jesus just try a dating site or something, or maybe just try hitting on someone OVER 18!!
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SplinterWingz
Hello mr/mrs pedo. I hope you enjoy jail and been assraped or whatever in the showers. Just dont drop the soap.. Oh wait, you might as well, you'd probably like it.
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[Old Memory]
Don't touch her.
If anything were to go wrong, she'd get hurt the most - no matter what they'd do to you in prison.
A boy can have all kindsa fantasies, but some shit you should just stay a damn million miles away from. Go and unload your tension into another object of desire.
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RainbowFlash
Read the question people.
Is it normal to like her/crush on her/have feelings for her? Yes, especially if she is cute.
Is it normal to date her? (Not the question) No.
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RainbowFlash
It is normal. Biologically she is capable of carrying children and humans males instinctively look for a mate with a high chance of producing and carrying viable offspring.
That does not make it "good" or legal though.
It is more than likely she has not found herself yet, you yourself have only likely just reached the third maturity plateau, she has two to go.
Irrespective of whether you two would be great together and live happily ever after, she is 15. It is most likely illegal and the last thing she needs is to be told her love is wrong at such a vulnerable time in her life. Even if you treated her perfectly, I can promise you that the law will not. She will be interrogated and grilled, it would be called abuse if it was not the police doing it.
Don't do it to her. It isn't fair.
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LizardSkin
That's funny me too. 27 with a 17 year old girlfriend.
Fortunately 17 is the "AoC" in my state.
Anyway, often times younger girls tend to like older guys and vice versa.
But 15 is out of bounds just about every where in North America I believe, so I suggest you tread very lightly!
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