Is it normal to be 22,and fall desperately in love with a 16 year old

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me and this girl have lived 2gether 4 quite a few years,and shes basically family,though not blood related.iv know her since she was like 12,and iv seen her grow up and mature,and i always cared about her,but these past few years,my feelings 4 her became really strong.its stupid to think that we could be 2gether,were in-laws,and shes so much younger,and she doesnt really like me that way,though we get along really well.iv tell her how i feel but it makes her feel weird,but heres where it gets bad,she hits me and beats me up,sometimes pretty bad,she controls me and orders me around and i like it,so does she.i wouldnt want to destroy our friendship by trying to have sex with her,but thats not what im after anyways,i LOVE when she hurts me,shes the only girl iv met thats not afraid to hit me in the face and hurt me really badly,all the good stuff.its so dangerous,i would be deveastated if she got in trouble for hurting me,but i dont care what happens to me,if i get arrested cuz ppl think im a pedofile or something like that,as long as shes ok.this isnt normal,what do u think?am i crazy?am i a sicko?

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  • fappydaze
    12 years ago

    google ephebophilia. pedophilia involves PREFERENCE for prepubecent. the US is one of the very few countries in the world that have laws against sex with 16 year olds. many countries have legal age laws at 12, 13, 14 years old. With that said, I think it's not normal to want to be with an abusive partner, especially as young and immature as her. she doesn't seem loving at all. I think you need to experience a mature loving relationship so you can see what is normal. USA has their law set because young girls are so damn immature and impulsive. 16 year old girls are generally attractive, no doubt. but i wouldn't have anything to do with any abusive woman, ESPECIALLY at her age.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    It's a fetish but don't rely on a 16 year old to satisfy your craving. I'd worry what she would say her reasons were if she was threatened with trouble. Too immature.

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    • mateo
      12 years ago

      i know,i h8 that she does that 4 me,its disgusting really,i feel so much guilt,but its no fault on her part.we just sort of fall into a pattern.she gets frustrated really easily,and uses me for an outlet,but she should have better ways to cope,i tell her that sometimes but she persists.how could i tell her not to do it,when we both like it,damn,its so terrible,i fear that we might ruin each others lives 1 day

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  • iwant2see
    10 years ago

    the fact that she dont like you touching her is a sign you need to stop messing with her. think she hittin you cause she dont like you and you think she do cause you like it. be careful

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  • FionnaCakeFan
    11 years ago

    One question.

    Is she family family or first friends and then seemed like family?

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  • Drummerguy729
    11 years ago

    It is normal as long as she loves you too . (And you don't have intercoarse)

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    • Drummerguy729
      11 years ago

      Until you are bot 18+*

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  • lizzi
    12 years ago

    i do think that its strange that you like getting hit but to some people pain is sexually wonderful. On the other hand i do think that it is nomal to b in love with a 16 yearold and your 22. when i was 11 i was in love and in a relationship wit a 18 year old. -ou should try and tell her its not a good idea if he hits you becuse of the way you feel about her and the pain. but if you dnt the pattern wont end. he dose like you thoe she just dosnt want to tell you maby bc of the age dif. or the fact that you knew her along time. she can also see you as a person to rely on and a big brother. bt she hits you and enjoys it maby she likes the oppsite to agressive girls like agressive guys.

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  • Treez
    12 years ago

    Werd

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  • aceface93
    12 years ago

    Well you must really like her if you like her even though she hits you in the face and such but good for you stay strong! Lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You like to get hit huh?

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    • mateo
      12 years ago

      no,i LOVE it,as long as its a girl doing it,i dont even like to associate with other boys

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    your a fucking nut case man , go to therapy .

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    • mateo
      12 years ago

      i cant afford that stuff,and it probably wouldnt help anyways,im 2 far into this shit now,theres no turning back

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        nooo , i was just messing with you! its completley cool. love doesn't matter size, height,age,personality . you love them formlove and nothing else

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  • Inspector019
    12 years ago

    =Pedophile

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    • mateo
      12 years ago

      awww,thanks

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