Is it normal to b 18 and dating my mom's ex who is 49 years old n hot?

I am a 18 year old gurl and im in love with my moms x boyfriend. Would you say thats wrong or nasty? he is also good and bed and he was there for me when i needed it. Sometimes i get intrested in younger guys but I always get back into love with him? BE HONEST thanx need feedback asap

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  • asura

    Alright guys! The girl obviously a few fries short of a happy meal. This is clearly a joke topic...

    That's just plain disgusting.

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  • 8Serene8

    It's gross because your mother has screwed him. Think about that every time you have sex with him. Everytime you put his peenor in your mouth, it has been inside your mother.

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    • jessicia16

      why should she care that his penis was in her mother ? so was the spoons in the kitchen drawer and so was she the day she was born... anyway it seems a very childish way to reason things

      Ps to the author of this post, I can relate to you and im also much more attracted to older guys ... the only thing about that particular person is how will it effect your relationship with your mother? .. if she wont know about it or is alright with it then id say go for it and dont look back... its hard to find someone you actually like.

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    • u supposed 2 b nice about it

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  • puppy-ray

    Well I think its kinda gross, does ur mom know?

    If she does, and shes ok with it, then whats the problem?

    If she doesnt and ur sneakin around with him then think about it. If u think it's normal and ok, then why sneak around and keep it on the downlow? ssshhaaadyyyyy.

    You are an adult, you can make your own decisions. If you love him and he loves you (he does, doesn't he...?) then nothing else should matter.

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  • goingaga

    Awww,now dts just plain disgusting! Eeew!

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  • CharlotteLily

    eeewwww your mum used to like him doesnt that make you wanna puke

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    • no

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  • koifish

    You basically fucked your mom, in a way?

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  • Hkart33

    That's just plain screwed up. Plus you could be his daughter. Maybe you guys can have a kid and he can screw her too.

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  • Nokiot9

    I bet he reeks of desperation and you mistake it as expensive cologne because you don't know any better. Plus, family is forever. There are tons of hot guys that are good in bed that are ur own age. That DIDNT DATE UR MOTHER.

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  • einestages

    First off go back to school and learn how to speak english and make complete sentences that make sense second this is a topic for jerry springer third the same guy that was in your mother is now in you any chance you live in a trailer park ?

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  • anonomous6293

    Im actually in the same relationship im 18 and hes 49 bt it isnt my moms ex... though i dont findvit gross at all still will prob really hurt ur mom

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  • Bbygirl.

    your*

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  • Bbygirl.

    Jessicia16,

    Unless YOU stick spoons directlyy up your Vag or Butt hole. Then No, It's not the samee thingg.

    It's gross. & You shouldn't date your friend's ex's, much less you own Mothers.

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  • ccarlsc12

    Well it is normal for young women to be sexually attracted to their father figure. The fact that the man was in a relationship with your mother and is now having one with is wrong. Think of the effects your relationship with him will have on your mother. My cousin actually did the same thing and it ruined her relationship with her mother. Years later the guy is gone but they still do not talk. The mom still feels betrayed and hurt.

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  • so_damn_unpretty

    consensus = not normal

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  • scotty4444

    If a 49 year old guy is good in bed by 49, he never will be!

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  • scotty4444

    So, if I date your mum for a bit, will you give me a shot too, sweety? Have fun, but you realize a 49 year old guy would only be with an 18 year old girl if she was willing, thats it though, any willing 18 year old. I know some really hot older guys too. Ah what the hell, you are old enough to make porn or die for your country, why not learn one of lifes toughest lessons early on?

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  • harrypotters

    Seems like you have a father complex so you are attracted to older men. As your farther must have left you sometime during your childhood, from your mother playing around. And because he was with your mother maybe you are associating him as a farther figure somehow due to thier past relationship.

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  • pixie_dust

    a 49 year old man will not have anything intellectually ib common with an 18 year old, period. sorry but he's out ffor the sex.

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  • Omg so u fucked ur mom too in a way. Weirdo.

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  • crazycow

    It's normal to feel this way but I don't think its normal to date your mom's ex. Does is not feel weird that she has been there first, or that your family will already know him and associate him with her, not to mention how uncomfortable it may be for your mother. Just think, he will actually be able to compare notes of you and your mom. If none of that weird stuff bothers you then go for it but it will probably haunt you in the future.

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  • It's normal.

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    • thanx y do u think its normal tho?

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