Is it normal to avoid someone you love?

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You've been in a relationship with that person before. You were in love, both of you. But then they left you (they had a good reason to leave) and now they're back. You still love them but you can't help but try and keep your distance from them. Is it normal to avoid someone even though you love them more than anything?

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Based on 51 votes (46 yes)
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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Yes it's the fear of all those feelings and pain.

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    • redoctober
      11 years ago

      You'll never cause me pain, Right Lieutenant Dan?

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      • Terence_the_viking
        11 years ago

        I hope not.

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        • redoctober
          11 years ago

          That's not a very positive reply, Lieutenant Dan.

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          • Terence_the_viking
            11 years ago

            You just never know.

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            • redoctober
              11 years ago

              Well what comes around goes around. Thats all I am saying, Lieutenant Dan.

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  • veritaserumbrewer
    11 years ago

    ahh i feels. went through this myself recently. you're just trying not to get too attached as before. its sort of a defense mechanism wherein you're sort of protecting yourself from getting hurt again. you're slowly detaching yourself from that person to avoid how things were before. I think its a good thing. less clingy-ness i suppose

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  • Lonely2
    8 years ago

    I puropsefully stay away from girls I like but realize they dont like me

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  • redoctober
    11 years ago

    lol cool our posts go sideways :D

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